The wedding is just a few days away and..

AJsMommy122 Posted: Feb 04, 2005 10:39 AM

The wedding is just a few days away and..

I got into a HUGE fight with one of my bms and now we arent speaking!!!!! Its a loooooong story but she is a big selfish baby and the way she acted the other day I can no longer look at her the same way.
I am still in shock over the way she acted

MrsA814 Posted: Feb 04, 2005 10:41 AM

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I'm so sorry that had to happen just a few days away. Sorry

CubanBride Posted: Feb 04, 2005 10:42 AM

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16 days away. Plenty of time to rectify the problem, I hope. I also hope she isn't a relative.

SUNSHINE24 Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:01 AM

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I know exactly how you feel. One of my bridesmaids and i got into an arugement over something so stupid. It was all a misinterpretation and she bailed on being a part of the wedding. SHe already ordered her dress and everything. Its sad, like you, i can never look at her the same way; and to top it off we work together.
Sorry this happen to you, but you just have to stay focused on YOU! Its your day and nobody should ruin it for you.
Good luck, let me know what happens.

littlebookworm4 Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:06 AM

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Maxine I'm so sorry - especially with your day being so close! Can you try to talk to her??? Granted I have no idea what happened but if you can mend this you might want to try ASAP or you may be down a BM on short notice or you guys will be 'pissy' towards each other on the day of the wedding. I hope everything works out! Good luck

Donna&Joe708 Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:08 AM

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I'm so sorry this is happening so close to your wedding. I hope everything works out for the best.

Bebalina Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:11 AM

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Aww Maxine i'm sorry..... i hope it all works out...i know its hard when u cant look at ur bm the same (im in the same boat)
i hope it works out for u

May05Bride Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:15 AM

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sorry!

bluesashbride Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:17 AM

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man that's crummy! well i hope you can both cool off and resolve the difference...but no matter what ENJOY your day when it gets here! maybe it'll be resolved maybe not, but do not let this ruin YOUR day.

alibali Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:37 AM

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i'm really sorry. weddings really bring out the worst in people.

as i was about to order my BM dresses one of my BM backed out.

my sisters wedding is the 26th.. a week after yours.. and one of her BM just went crazy and dropped out. she just flipped out for no reason. people truly act their weirdest at this time.

i'm sorry... just dont let her get the best of you and ruin your day

jimmysgrl Posted: Feb 04, 2005 11:39 AM

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Oh, I am so sorry that she's acting like this! Its so sad that weddings do seem to bring out the worst in people, I'm only sorry that you're seeing all of it now.