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Theme: Is it ok if I dont incorporate it into everything?

divabride Posted:

Theme: Is it ok if I dont incorporate it into everything?

I have an autumn theme for the reception hall. Lots of leaves, goards and candles. The girls will be in burgandy with matching roses. But I wanted to do everything silver and white for the church - programs, direction cards and everything else ceremony related. The STD's I sent out were charcoal grey. I havent decided on invites yet, and I dont know what color to use. With all these colors, does this sound ok, or am I just all over the place with this?

AJsMommy122 Posted:

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I think its ok.
What I dont like is something my sister saw at a wedding this weekend.
The bride and groom had a christmas theme at the cocktail hour... but once you got into the reception there was no more christmas anything. Except for the favors.. they were ornaments with the couples names.
She said it was really cute at the CH and she walked into the room expecting even more and was dissapointed.
amyandeddie Posted:

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JMHO I like everything to match- but I don't think it would be wrong to do it your way especially if the ceremony and the reception are being held at two different locations.
divabride Posted:

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So for invitations what color should I go for? Silver/grey (to match STD's and ceremony) or brown/burgandy (to match autumn theme)?

Bunnymonkey Posted:

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i would say match the invites with the theme of the wedding.

I do not think everything has to match -

everything sounds lovely!
divabride Posted:

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

i would say match the invites with the theme of the wedding.

I do not think everything has to match -

everything sounds lovely!



Thanks!!!
azoodie Posted:

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i agree with bunny! stds and invites don't necissarly go hand in hand....mine sure don't!

bluesashbride Posted:

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i agree with the other gals, i'd put the wedding colors in the invite.

Marisa M Posted:

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I honestly think you should go w/ whatever invite catches your eye. - No one is going to remember if the invite they rec'd 2 months prior matches the ceremony or the reception.........Keep an open mind and find something that just pops out @ you ........

Nautical bride Posted:

Re: Theme: Is it ok if I dont incorporate it into everything?


Posted by Marisa M

I honestly think you should go w/ whatever invite catches your eye. - No one is going to remember if the invite they rec'd 2 months prior matches the ceremony or the reception.........Keep an open mind and find something that just pops out @ you ........



I sort of disagree. Some people may bring the invite with them to the ceremony/reception because it has the directions or info with it. I think you should match the invites to the wedding theme and perhaps add the color burgundy into your ceremony program. (You can keep the silver and white but add a touch of burgundy to make it complementary.) JMO
LuvMyMichael Posted:

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Diva.....I think silvers would be fine for your church and then go with the fall stuff for the reception hall. Sounds all good to me. Its gonna be so pretty!

FLaCaTaCa Posted:

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PERFECT!!! I think it will be great!!!!

I went a bit overboard with my theme. Don't mind me.

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