I'm so stupid we still never booked our Hotel rooms. I know I have more to do, I just can't get it together. And I still never booked RH dinner. Next weekend we have to book pre cana. This is really bad it's back to work and I still have so much to do. Oh yeah and really I need to get my GUEST list together. I think I might have to get planner. And we still can't find a place to live.
MrsDtoBe09
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Oh no Tori! Just take it one day at a time and tell yourself that you'll get one thing accomplished each week.
I need to order a grooms cake for our RD and my mom needs one for my shower. I really want to jump off a cliff. I need to figure out who is going to do my hair and make-up. The list is getting longer and longer.
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Posted by Tori9299
I'm so stupid we still never booked our Hotel rooms. I know I have more to do, I just can't get it together. And I still never booked RH dinner. Next weekend we have to book pre cana. This is really bad it's back to work and I still have so much to do. Oh yeah and really I need to get my GUEST list together. I think I might have to get planner. And we still can't find a place to live.
I know I have to book precana just to get it done with........And I keep putting it off because I know FH really doesn't want to do it!!!!!
Steffie
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Yea Make a list of the last things you need to do and then take it from there..... Make a point from now each month do something or 2 on your list.....
No stressing !!!!
evewedsjc
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JUST TAKE ONE TASK AND FINISH IT...SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE!!!!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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OMG tori... just take a deep breath! make yourself a schedule... put it in priority order and like ang said, get something done each week.... it'll feel good to actuall see yourself cross things off a list.! You have 4 full months... you can do it all... dont worry!
chicky724
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Awww
You can do ittttt!
MrsDrinkh20
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You can do it! Deep breaths and one thing at a time!
I'm really bugging out. I can't even get a list together I just feel clueless, and I never thought I would get this way but I kindda wish this wedding was all over with. My mom thinks we should get a planner. FH helps when he wants to all he cares about is the gym and sports. He said Sunday he will go with me to find a hotel. Saturday he is going to play softball.
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Take a deep breath and relax. Once you feel better, just jot down everything and tackle it one by one. You can do it! Everything will fall into place. If you need any help, just holler!
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Dont forget you can always delegate tasks. Make a list of what MUST be done today, and make a goal for the rest of the week. Not everything has to get done now, and not everything has to get done by you.
I am learning this same lesson right now. Especially now that the school year is starting, I want everything to be in its place before the madness begins, but there will still be free time once school starts. I just have to keep reminding myself.
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Posted by Steffie
Yea Make a list of the last things you need to do and then take it from there..... Make a point from now each month do something or 2 on your list.....
No stressing !!!!
I agree, that is what I did just this morning and the list keeps growing and growing!!! Just takes things one at a time. Most things can be researched online, so thats good, like cakes and hotels. If you want to save money on a planner, you can go to theknot they have great checklist and guest list tools for you to use. they are really helpful. Martha stewart has a great site too.
http://www.marthastewart.com/weddings
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Yes, I totally agree that you dont have to take on everything yourself! Let others help you out! I wanted to do other DIY's myself and I stacked some hard ones on myself... Our best man's gf is looking to build up her design portfolio so I am letting her handle my menus, tables names, signature drink cards... She wanted to do my invites, but Im just going to go cheap and order them online
