First off let me start by saying I told everyone in the BP to get whatever shoes they wanted as long as they were dyeable. So everyone is telling me about the shoes they are getting or got for the wedding. So far no one got shoes w/ diamonds or crystals on them.. So I decided that me and my MOH will be the only ones with stuff on our shoes. I totally forgot to talk to 1 girl about it so I emailed her last night from how she described them, they sound just like my MOH shoes. I emailed her back how no one else got shoes w/ diamonds but I didn’t make a big deal about it, but I am a little upset about it… what should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
P.S. - My MOH is my sister and she was excited that she and I would be the only ones with diamonds on the shoes, she was the one that was really telling everyone that she wanted the special shoes She made sure to double and triple check with everyone to not get anything on their shoes!
P.P.S - I STILL DONT HAVE SHOES
TiffJoey
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I personally wouldn't be upset...i'm assuming since your wedding is in November that the bridesmaid dresses are floor length and therefore you won't even see the girls shoes...JMHO...sorry you are upset though and I hope the issue gets resolved
Kimbalina
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I dont think it would be to harsh to ask her to exchange them if they are not already dyed.. If they are then, you MOH will have to get over it. It isnt a big deal
KK Holiday
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i think you should let this one pass. theyre just shoes and most people wont even notice them
2007 Crescent Bride
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I wouldn't waste my energy being upset over shoes. I think it's more important that they get comfortable shoes. JMO
wifetobe
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I wouldn't stress over it. No one notices the shoes anyway. Im sorry you are upset over it... but this will be one situation where after the wedding...you will laugh at it.. no biggy!!!
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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride
I wouldn't waste my energy being upset over shoes. I think it's more important that they get comfortable shoes. JMO
ITA
dangell427
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i wouldnt let it get to you too much u cant stress the little things. no one else is going to even look at the shoes aside from people in your bridal party. beleive me no one else is goin to notice a detail like that!
Maria31
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I wouldn't waste my energy being upset over shoes. I think it's more important that they get comfortable shoes. JMO
Totally Agree.
FinallyEngaged
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I think i may just be a little crazy b/c it is crunch time and the slightest things set me off....
THANKS GIRLS for knocking me back down!
2007 Crescent Bride
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I think i may just be a little crazy b/c it is crunch time and the slightest things set me off....
THANKS GIRLS for knocking me back down!
Anytime!! Seriously though I wouldn't stress over such little things.
kirstenjk
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Take a deep breath and save the bridezilla moments for when you really need one.
No one will noticed a bridesmaids shoes - they will be too busy looking at the beautiful bride.
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I wouldn't waste my energy being upset over shoes. I think it's more important that they get comfortable shoes. JMO
ITA
Wifeynella
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IMO its not a big deal. If you told them they could get anyshoe they want, and then at the 11th hour decided they can't have anything on them, but neglected to tell them - your BM did nothing wrong. Its november, so your shoes aren't going to be seen and secondly... you as the bride and your sis as the MOH don't need shoes to make you both stand out on this day.
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I agree with the others...it's hard to find shoes that fit and are comfortable. If you really feel strongly, you could paint over the sparkles, or even sand them so they don't shine, or put wax or soap on them,but I say let it ride.
