My rsvp date is in two weeks. We are still missing over 100 people. I got none yesterday or today. I dont know what to do anymore. I'm getting really aggravated. I only have 50 people attending so far. I bet half of them wont show up too...Probably FMIL's stupid friends that she begged me to invite..half of em said no..i bet the rest wont even show
mac123
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Dont worry people like to wait to the last minute
joan_db
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That was my issue before. I just don't undestand how hard it is to mail the RSVP back? It has a stamp & envelop already. All they need to do it to check if they are coming or not..heck they don't even need to put their names since I numbered each of them.
Some people like to wait to the last minute...ugh!!!
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Posted by joan_db
That was my issue before. I just don't undestand how hard it is to mail the RSVP back? It has a stamp & envelop already. All they need to do it to check if they are coming or not..heck they don't even need to put their names since I numbered each of them.
Some people like to wait to the last minute...ugh!!!
Don't even need to put their name Some folks just don't realize by waiting they cause a lot of behind the wedding planning scenes. Give it some more time hun.
Tobewed07
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I really feel for you, you must be ready to explode!! ...I'm sure you will get them all withing a few days.
DeeDee1013
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My RSVPs are trickling in.....
Mich0621
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I bet you will be flooded the absolute last minute!
babydeelila
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People wait to the last last minute!!! Don't stress... plan that the week before you need to give a final head count you will make the calls... put your MIL up to it for those on her side.... and don't worry about until then....
we actually had to give our final head count today... and yes we were making some last calls even today...
I will never understand why it is hard for someone to RSVP to an event... when the envelope is already addressed and stamped....
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Don't worry I was going through the same thing. They first came in trickling and then towards the due date they came in fast again. The best part was I decided to give 3 extra days becasue my RSVP date was last Wed and I was nice to give until this past Sat. Low and behold 4 more trickled in after the due date. I wasnt happy but I was glad I gave it a few extra days to avoid headaches. We then called the ones that haven't returned at all. But everyone is right they are alot of procrastinators out there when it comes to RSVP's. So don't fret they will come in.
PegaLega
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Dont worry, we got the brunt of our RSVPs the few days before
kavirtue
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Don't worry... I am in the same boat. I am waiting for over 100 response, which includes family members that I know are coming. Crazy... Hang in there. Don't freak out until 2 days before.
MrsQ-in2007
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Hey Date twin - I JUST sent out my invites this past Friday so I'm dreading the whole RSVP thing . .. never did understand why people wait forever to write their name on a card, check a box and put it in the mailbox!
Mrs.NicolaXoXo
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Don't freak out! I always wait until the last possible minute unless I know I can't go-then I send it in sooner! I bet you the rest will be YES