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This is just disgraceful.

PrincessRose Posted:

This is just disgraceful.

A bat mitzvah's not the sort of event that normally warrants a press release. But Amber Ridinger's coming-of-age was no cheap banquet-hall bash.

On Saturday Amber, a Miami Country Day School eighth-grader and aspiring fashion designer, became an adult — and it only cost her parents $500,000. Ridinger's bat mitzvah ceremony was followed by a chichi party that doubled as an out-of-this-world 13th-birthday celebration. It unfolded inside Miami Beach club the Forge, and the party's guests arrived in limos to a pink carpet cluttered with television cameras and local news crews.

Oh, and the entire evening was capped off with musical performances by Ja Rule, Ashanti, Marques Houston and Omarion. The guest list also included embattled Inc. president Irv Gotti, Playboy Playmate-turned-actress Brande Roderick and Nicole Richie's husband-to-be, DJ AM.

The high-priced party even had a theme: 'Butterflies and Bling' ('Well, diamonds are a girl's best friend,' she told The Miami Herald. 'And I love butterflies, too, so I thought they would make a great combination.') And it was certainly a blingin' celebration. Ridinger donned a $27,000 Dolce & Gabbana gown and, before the evening was through, debuted her line of rhinestone-studded club clothes, Gossip, via a runway show. The club's wine cellar was even transformed into a real-life interactive Candy Land — the drapes, according to the Herald, were chocolate-covered ... and delicious.

'I hope our daughter one day doesn't expect something this big,' said nervous Mets slugger and catcher Mike Piazza, who arrived with his model wife, Alicia Rickter. Amber's parents are dot-com millionaires James and Loren Ridinger.

Needless to say Amber's shindig put most sweet 16s to shame, thanks to Ja Rule and Ashanti, who Torah the roof off the Forge with renditions of Ja's 'Always on Time' and 'Livin' It Up.'

For Ja, it was his first bat mitzvah. 'I'm Uncle Ja,' he said, with his arm wrapped around a beaming Amber. 'I'm really here just to scare all the little boys, the little 13-year-old bad boys that try to hit on little Amber. That's why I'm here.'

From VH1.com
oneday Posted:

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That is so ridiculous!!! what do they do for her wedding to top that?!!!
SuzBride Posted:

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Posted by oneday

That is so ridiculous!!! what do they do for her wedding to top that?!!!



OMG - I wonder what her Sweet 16 and wedding will be like. Chocolate covered drapes A $27,000 gown I can't even imagine the words 'Diamonds are a girls best friend' coming out of my mouth at age 13 - - or even now
Mrs. Powell Posted:

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This so outrageous.

JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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I had no clue about designers at 13. And this one has a clothing line? Why don't kids have childhoods anymore?
Mrs. Powell Posted:

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

I had no clue about designers at 13. And this one has a clothing line? Why don't kids have childhoods anymore?



That is why when they grow up they go through mid life crisis because they did not enjoy the stages of being a child because of trying to become an adult too soon.
JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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Posted by Mrs. Powell


Posted by JanuaryBride06

I had no clue about designers at 13. And this one has a clothing line? Why don't kids have childhoods anymore?



That is why when they grow up they go through mid life crisis because they did not enjoy the stages of being a child because of trying to become an adult too soon.



I so agree.
Blu-ize Posted:

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she will have no concept of reality as an adult if she doesn't as a child. As fun as this sounds, I wouldn't trade my life.

ShortBride Posted:

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That is absoluetly ridiculous. When I graduated from Jewish cultural school (don't ask ), we had a backyard family/friends party cooked by my mom and grandma!
Thumballina Posted:

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Pathetic ...thats about all I can say about these ridiculous expensive parties for a 13 year old...what happened to small family parties

Sweetd Posted:

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It really is ridiculous! I can't get over how much people spend on parties these days!!!
sarahthegreat Posted:

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kids that get everything they want, disgust me. the girl will never have to lift a finger her whole life and that sickens me.

carlsbride Posted:

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A good example of how money is wasted on the rich. What about teaching your child what it means to be a caring, compassionate adult, instead of how to be a greedy, superficial, overly extravagant one? Good luck to her future husband who has to live up to these standards.

Think of the homes that could have been rebuilt in New Orleans for that money. Think of all the food that could have been donated to hungry people for the holidays.

I guess it is their money and they can spend it how they want, but it is sad and disgusting to read something like this.
Mrs.Z Posted:

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RIDICULOUS
Katherine121 Posted:

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Posted by ShortBride

That is absoluetly ridiculous. When I graduated from Jewish cultural school (don't ask ), we had a backyard family/friends party cooked by my mom and grandma!



Now THAT's a party!! Those are the best kind - food cooked with LOVE.
PrincessRose Posted:

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Agreed. My Mom was up to her elbows in Baked Ziti cooking for my Bat Mitzvah. I made all the goody bags, centerpieces, and sign in board myself.

I'll never forget how good that party felt when it all came together.
beautyq115 Posted:

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Insane!
JimmysBride Posted:

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Absurd!
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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her parents will be sorry, someday. if you start this way, what's next?
beautyq115 Posted:

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Its actually more for the parents to show off to their friends then about a special day in this girls life!

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