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This is really bad, right?

mrsjpc3 Posted:

This is really bad, right?

So we sent out STD's against my better judgment (wish we never did this!)... Now we are finalizing the guest list, and FH now decides he wants to cut several people (his friends) and not invite them.

I know you are always supposed to invite them, if you sent them the STD... But, I almost dont feel that bad, because these are 'friends' of his I have never even met (in 4 yrs!!).. so I dont feel overly bad about this (its terrible, i know).

So what should I do? Should I just invite them anyway (they will all likely come), or just go the tacky route and not invite them. Again, I dont know ANY of these people.

What would you do? (I know what I wanna do......lol)
bella1028 Posted:

Re: This is really bad, right?

i know its annoying to invite people you do not know well or at all, but if it were me and im sorry b/c it does not sound like this is what you want tohear, but i would feel he need to invite them seeing as you have already sent them stds
MrsHtobe Posted:

Re: This is really bad, right?


Posted by bella1028

i know its annoying to invite people you do not know well or at all, but if it were me and im sorry b/c it does not sound like this is what you want tohear, but i would feel he need to invite them seeing as you have already sent them stds



I kind of agree - I understand where you are coming from - seriously.

But I think you need to suck it up and invite them. JMO
Dee0522 Posted:

Re: This is really bad, right?

I agree too... if you sent an STD, you really should invite them.

bluegreen08 Posted:

Re: This is really bad, right?

I sent STDs to 3 classmates who I'm not really that close with anymore. I was a little embarrassed, but sent them invites anyway (they are all OOT, so I knew they wouldn't come)

One just sent us a small registry gift with a very nice card
mrsjpc3 Posted:

Re: This is really bad, right?

and we live in FL, these people are in NY.. we will literally never see them..

lol, I know what I want to do... but I guess you are convincing me to invite them. (dammit).

JodyLC Posted:

Re: This is really bad, right?

Unfortunately you need to invite them if you sent them STD's to avoid this problem we did our guest list before we sent STD's and only sent them to OOT guests.

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