This is so annoying...(Vent)...Update 6/9

So I posted the other day because FH told me that his little sisters (13 and 8) were mad and so was his mother that they werent in the wedding. I told him to tell his mom that I didnt mean to leave them out and I would love to have them in the wedding (as Jr. BMs). Then FSIL told me that the 13 yr. old called her and said it was so rude of us to leave here out and how unfair it was that she wasnt in the wedding. At this point, I emailed FMIL and apologized. I told her I really wanted them involved and was sorry. Then FMIL calls me and tells me, no - the girls are fine.

I cant take this flip flopping anymore! Do they want to be in the wedding or not!?! I would think it would be nice to have them involved. But before, I had them as bridal attendants (rose petals, programs, etc) and no one seemed to care. I just dont know what to do anymore

Sorry, I just been needing to vent

Do what makes you and Fh happy. You won't be able to please everyone.

My FMIL just emailed me and said to include the girls!!

I guess she was mad because she thought I apologized out of guilt -well, duh! but I also felt really bad and I did want the girls involved!

That's it -- I NOW HAVE TO JR BMs and THATS THE FINAL WORD!