This sucks!!!

bad timing but my MOH has kidney stones and has been in hospital. she just calls me all upset b/c she was planning a huge jack and jill shower for early next month and nwo she cant do it, b/c its to much work and shes not up to it. shes just gonna have the basic girls only shower at a place, I know this sounds selfish but i was sooo looking forward to it, but what can i do, shes sick and i felt really bad my FH is depressed though he was looking forward to it,
sorry so long just had to vent:

aren't your BM's helping to plan the shower? not sure why they can't do it themselves.

to your MOH

Recovery for kidney stones isnt that long, maybe she's trying to through you off! and if not, why arent the other bms helping her?
I'll pray for her quick recovery!!!

I'm also wondering, why is she doing it all on her own? There must be someone to help...OR...due to her situation, can you help plan it, since your aware of it already, its not a surprise, if they still are paying and doing other details, you ccould help ...I would..