This was not a hoax at all!

armybride2be Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:24 PM

This was not a hoax at all!

Hello everyone I took a bath and and I was hoping to drown my tears away. I thought about the seed I have growing in my tummy and I have a change of heart. Please girls do not think in anyway that this was a hoax IM very upset but I've read the forum mails that I received and a few POSt I had no idea I would cause SO much chaos IM SO sorry for upsetting you girls. All of you are wonderful women with generous loving kind hearts. Thank you SO much for the outpour of kindness consideration and love im so sorry for upsetting you guys but i also prayed and this is not the way to go killing my self wont help anyone. if my fh wont help me with my baby ill help myself im not getting rid of this baby if its from God it must be for a reason. Girls i can never thank you for how considerate youve ever been if i can ever help any of you please let me know thank you so much everyone

103005FallBride Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:26 PM

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BUMP

Glad you're ok.

NYCtoSEA Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:27 PM

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I am so happy to hear that you are feeling better! Things will work out - you have support!

suven Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:27 PM

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glad to hear you're okay

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:28 PM

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OMG, we were sooooooooo worried! I'm glad you're okay!!!

armybride2be Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:28 PM

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thank you so much everyone i cant believe people ive never met in my life love me more than people ive known for years thanks

LisaJill Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:28 PM

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So glad you are ok. Was very worried. Don't ever think about such bad things. Be strong!!!!! And just a little NYS law info: If things don't work out with you guys... he still has to give you child support to the tune of 17% of his income. Just to reassure you that you won't be doing this totally by yourself!! I hope that me writing this is not inappropriate but I just want you to know that you won't have to do this all alone and I am sure you will have the love and support of family and friends.

jes81276 Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:28 PM

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Glad to hear that you are ok, but your posts are obviosuly a cry for help. If you are thinking of harming yourself, then you really should seek professional help - someone who is not emotionally involved w/your situation and who can give you coping mechanisms for what you have going on in your life. Good luck to you and my thoughts are with you.

beautyq115 Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:29 PM

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THANK GOD YOU ARE OK!!! We were ALL worried!

Sorry that we may have thought it was a hoax but there are some sickos who have done that on this site!

We are just releaved that you are ok!!

BEANS Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:31 PM

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SOOOO GLAD YOU ARE OKAY!!! You should FM Ron & let him know, before he freaks out!

tiffandmatt Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:32 PM

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Posted by beautyq115

THANK GOD YOU ARE OK!!! We were ALL worried!

Sorry that we may have thought it was a hoax but there are some sickos who have done that on this site!

We are just releaved that you are ok!!

Thank goodness your ok!!!

lindz Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:33 PM

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Posted by jes81276

Glad to hear that you are ok, but your posts are obviosuly a cry for help. If you are thinking of harming yourself, then you really should seek professional help - someone who is not emotionally involved w/your situation and who can give you coping mechanisms for what you have going on in your life. Good luck to you and my thoughts are with you.

Yes, you should still go see someone. It will be good to talk to someone about this on a regular basis.

Noiva06 Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:35 PM

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armybride - please know that we are all here for you. Right now, you need to stay to calm and think things through rationally. What you have received is some life altering news and your FH is probably both shocked and scared. If he was going to marry you, then he obviously wanted a future with you and a future with your children. However, between proposing to you and news of a child on the way, he probably got nervous of how much his life way changing. Stay calm and don't do anything drastic. You two need to have a serious conversation and perhaps seek some counseling together. In time, things have a way of straightening themselves out and you will see things will turn for the better. We are all here for you and worried for you. Please check in every so often to let us know you are alright.

cocoa Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:35 PM

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please take care of yourself and that little baby!

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Oct 07, 2005 09:36 PM

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We are so relieved that you're back on but please look into counseling for you and FHso that you can effectively work through this. We are here for you.