I'm sure if I found something to do that I enjoyed, I'd feel the same way you do. Honestly I don't mind working, I just need more time off!!
I agree, if I were happier at work it would bother me as much as it does, esp. lately.
I think I could get used to staying home for awhile when the time comes for kiddies (if we can afford it, that is .. most likely not..)
but I've been working FT for nearly 15 years and I'm burnt out .. esp. from the NYC commuting .. that has got to change, esp. if we wind up living on LI (we live in Westcheste now). NO WAY I'm dealing with LIRR..