Those of you who are married now....

mrswask Posted: Jan 06, 2004 10:24 PM

Those of you who are married now....

How do you feel? Do you feel down that the wedding planning is done? Do you miss the excitement of it? Or are you so happy it's all over and life is back to normal?

StayandJohn Posted: Jan 06, 2004 10:34 PM

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I definately miss the planning and the anticipation of the big countdown.....but now I'm working on a baby so that takes my mind off of it

ChristineC68 Posted: Jan 06, 2004 10:50 PM

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At first I felt like I had lack of direction since so much of my time was spent thinking about the wedding but after a couple of months that passed. It's actually DH that would do it all over again

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jan 06, 2004 11:43 PM

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of course he would!! your the one who probably did all of the work!

Sunny Posted: Jan 06, 2004 11:47 PM

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I am happy that it is over.

It was a little sad, but I was more relieved than sad.

I would love to do the day again, but not the planning.

ChristineC68 Posted: Jan 07, 2004 07:13 AM

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

of course he would!! your the one who probably did all of the work!

Actually, DH was there for every single appointment & was part if every single decision except when it came to my gown.

jennbaby Posted: Jan 07, 2004 07:20 AM

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Posted by StayandJohn

but now I'm working on a baby so that takes my mind off of it

Baby Dust to us Stacey!

I do not miss the planning but I wish I could do my day over again! I am relieved the saving & stressing is over!!

merf99 Posted: Jan 08, 2004 02:55 PM

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I miss the planning actually - not the stressful parts but the fun ones like dress shopping and going to the florist, etc... I would live to relive the day again too.

littlecat Posted: Jan 08, 2004 03:17 PM

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It was really upsetting for at least for a few weeks but now i am over it and just so happy to be married. Two of my other friends are getting married so now i am enjoying helping them plan.

franksbride Posted: Jan 08, 2004 03:58 PM

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In a way I'm relieved that the stress of it all is over...but I LOVED the planning and the shopping and making all the decisions.

I would love to do my day all over again...this time I'd do it in a different season with a different dress, different hair, different everything.

Not that I didn't LOVE every detail of my wedding...I just LOVE so many different things that it was so hard picking just one dress, one pair of shoes, one kind of favor, etc., etc.

I am happy to say that now I can focus on other aspects of my life, buying a house, and having a baby!!!

Sassy Posted: Jan 08, 2004 05:19 PM

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I really loved every aspect of wedding planning, and especially my perfect day

For the first month of marriage I really did miss it all.
Now that I'm in my 7th month, I am relaxed, happy and content. I love having free time and also money to shop
Plus hopefully soon baby will make 3

chmpgnrose Posted: Jan 08, 2004 06:09 PM

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Definitely miss the excitement and all the appointments with wedding vendors. It feels great to be in a secured relationship. However, marriage is a lot of hard work of compromise, communication, trust, love, and team work everyday to make it a success. I don't miss the stress, frustration, annoyance, anger of the wedding plans though. I sadly miss being the blushing bride!

It was definitely the HAPPIEST day of our lives!

christy Posted: Jan 08, 2004 06:11 PM

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I feel like I miss the excitement of waiting for the wedding, and feeling special as a bride to be. But I dont really feel sad. I am so happy that our wedding was a success and that we are happily married now and finally living together.

DKA1026 Posted: Jan 08, 2004 07:02 PM

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I think for the first few months I totally missed the fun of planning my wedding. I missed the excitement of the anticipation and all that other good stuff. But after awhile it faded. Now we're planning for the baby