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Thought this would be Helpful: Suggested Tipping

Sandradv121 Posted:

Thought this would be Helpful: Suggested Tipping

I got this from my DOC, and I have found it so helpful. Just wanted to share the list! Its just a guideline, so its always best to use your own discretion...
HTH

Hair - $50 to $75

Makeup - $50 to $75

DJ - $100 - $150

DJ asst - $50 to $75

Band – 10% of total bill

Photographer - $150 - $200

Photographer asst - $75 - $100

Videographer - $150 - $200

Video asst - $75 - $100

Limos - $50 each

Floral delivery - $25 to $50 each

Maitre-d’ - $3 to $5 per person

Bridal attendant - $75 to $100

Officiant - $25 to $50

Altar boys - $25 each

Ceremony music - $25 to $50

Wedding coordinator’s assistant - $75 - $100

Wedding coordinator – at your discretion


KrisD72310 Posted:

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Thanks!!! Do some of them seem a little high though?
Sandradv121 Posted:

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Some do, but this is 'suggested'. You should tip to your own discretion of course.

DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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Hair - $50-$75 isnt that a little excessive? Is that per person or for the whole group?

Sandradv121 Posted:

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I think group. I have a large group, so I think I better tip more to the poor girls who have to do my bp and the mommies and the Italians...

laulac98 Posted:

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How do I tip the people that deliver the flowers? I won't be there when they come.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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thanks sandra! this is helpful
sugarnspice Posted:

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i dont understand!!! a tip is for great service ... i get the bridl attendants etc but the DJ? tho the photog? their JOB is to do what they are doing.....

kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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This is so helpful! Thanks - notebooking this one!

Hoda2010 Posted:

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Posted by laulac98

How do I tip the people that deliver the flowers? I won't be there when they come.



You can tip them when they come to your house in the morning to drop the flowers off. And usually they stick around for you to see the room to make sure you love everything!!!
christine2010 Posted:

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i personally think those are on the expensive side.

i was an alter server & i never got $25 for a wedding. the most i ever got was $50 for a funeral but the guy that died was in the Mafia.

& limos $50 a driver? for them to do the job they get paid for, for 3 hours.
laulac98 Posted:

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Posted by Hoda2010


Posted by laulac98

How do I tip the people that deliver the flowers? I won't be there when they come.



You can tip them when they come to your house in the morning to drop the flowers off. And usually they stick around for you to see the room to make sure you love everything!!!



Oh ok, that's good to know. I have no idea lol
Sandradv121 Posted:

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Like I said ladies, its suggested. You don't have to tip them this at all.

I won't be having a band or alter servers etc, however, depending on the job done, I will use my discression when tipping. She just provided a guideline.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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I disagree with some... this is what i did primarily:

hair and makeup - 15-20% of total bill

DJ (who also MC) - $150

percussionist - $75

dinner singer - $35 (he was phenomenal- should have given more but tips were handed out in beginning by DOC)

Photographer - $100

Videographer - $100

Floral delivery - $10 (i only had bo-ks)

Maitre-d’ - $5 pp bc he went above & beyond

Bridal attendant - $75

Wedding coordinator’s assistant - $75
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

I disagree with some... this is what i did primarily:

hair and makeup - 15-20% of total bill

DJ (who also MC) - $150

percussionist - $75

dinner singer - $35 (he was phenomenal- should have given more but tips were handed out in beginning by DOC)

Photographer - $100

Videographer - $100

Floral delivery - $10 (i only had bo-ks)

Maitre-d’ - $5 pp bc he went above & beyond

Bridal attendant - $75

Wedding coordinator’s assistant - $75



Thanks for this - i think this sounds great and am definately saving this
jcreilly Posted:

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Posted by nydk21

Hair - $50-$75 isnt that a little excessive? Is that per person or for the whole group?


I agree it must be a whole group, my hair will only cost $ 80 on my wedding day to do !
The list is great , thank you
NYgirlinTX Posted:

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I know we have to tip but...... I love how we HAVE to tip on top ofpaying an seriously insane amount for their service 'b/c we are a wedding' AND on top of that as well, haveing to buy the vendors plates at the wedding!

I want to be a vendor! You get to charge A LOT, EAT A LOT AND MAKE CASH TIPS!
Lady12 Posted:

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I totally agree. After paying all these vendors, they expect you to have money left for a tip?

rocketsummer17 Posted:

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This is awesome, Thanks!!

MrsH37 Posted:

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Thanks for the list! It's a great guideline.

I always felt comfortable tipping %. like 10% if I like something. 15% if I really like it and 20% if they were outstanding.

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