Is there one part of the wedding that you and FH cannot see eye to eye on? For example: you want the BM and GM to be in Blue and he wants Black?
In the beginning of all this wedding planning, I introduced the idea of a photo booth as a favor for the wedding and FH HATED the idea! He said that he did not want one....However, when we went to the last CB showcase, they had a Photobooth company there and NOW he wants one very Badly! I also wanted one of those huge buses (since our Bridal party is almost 20 ppl) to shuttle us from church to the RH, but FH said absolutely NOT! He still has not changed his mind so we are just going to go with the cadillac Escalade and the Mercedes Benz stretch.
My FH and I were originally arguing about EVERYTHING! We're both stubborn. Luckily, he gave up and let me take over. Now we get along great and he still gets (almost) everything he wants.
I say go for the Caddy. The CRV one is pretty and clean and white inside (with Royalty Limo)
So far, we've been on the same page...thank goodness. I say find something within budget that you would like and know he would LOVE. Bring it up in passing and when he's OH, YEAH! Say, 'nah babe....I'm not THAT into it' Then offer to swap. What he REALLY wants (which you secretly do too) for the bus.
He thinks a photobooth is going over the top hes like 'its gonna be a circus ...should we call the harbor club and ask if we can get a huge blow up slide from the balcony into the harbor too' i was like Oooo can we??!! LOL
Umm so far we haven't really disagreed on anything besides the fact that I want to do things and he thinks its too early. He says he wants us to be together for the planning, which would be nice but since we won't be living together again until June... umm it makes it difficult!!
He thinks a photobooth is going over the top hes like 'its gonna be a circus ...should we call the harbor club and ask if we can get a huge blow up slide from the balcony into the harbor too' i was like Oooo can we??!! LOL
OMG I had the same issue! i still want a photobooth but FH is totally against it. He thinks its a 'waste of money'--He is VERY frugal b/c WE are paying for the wedding on our own....and i understand where hes coming from, but its our wedding! LOL
Hes also against a DOC, which I have agreed on now--i am just crossing my fingers everything goes well.....we still have lots of planning to do! LOL
He thinks a photobooth is going over the top hes like 'its gonna be a circus ...should we call the harbor club and ask if we can get a huge blow up slide from the balcony into the harbor too' i was like Oooo can we??!! LOL
Fh doesn't want to spend our savings on the wedding. He wants to elope and spend our money on a house but he says I can have whatever I want. I know in a way he is right. So now I'm struggling with the idea of the wedding and how much I should set the budget for. It's got me a little upset not gonna lie.
My FH is the one pushing the photobooth.. I am the one not sure about it...I have never been to a wedding with one, but everyone I know who has loved them...aren't they like $2,000+
depending on if we book BYC im trying to convince him to do the afterparty next door at warehouse for 2 hours. He says it will be a long day and he will jsut want to go to bed ( ) I said its our wedding day and if i have to be up for 24 hours to celebrate i will damnnit!
My FH is the one pushing the photobooth.. I am the one not sure about it...I have never been to a wedding with one, but everyone I know who has loved them...aren't they like $2,000+
He thinks a photobooth is going over the top hes like 'its gonna be a circus ...should we call the harbor club and ask if we can get a huge blow up slide from the balcony into the harbor too' i was like Oooo can we??!! LOL
edited bc i posted mid sentence lol
ok i want a big blow up slide now! lol
Me too!!!! and he cant complain bc he gave me the idea!
I'll let you all know in a few months....we haven't really had a chance to get too into a whole lot of planning yet. Although....I don't see FH giving me a hard time about much, he is very easy going! Well, besides spending too much $$$....he is a little on the frugal side too!
Fh doesn't want to spend our savings on the wedding. He wants to elope and spend our money on a house but he says I can have whatever I want. I know in a way he is right. So now I'm struggling with the idea of the wedding and how much I should set the budget for. It's got me a little upset not gonna lie.
I was the opposite. I DID NOT want a wedding. But, my fiance was right when he said we'll probably get most of it back. So, I'm just keeping my fingers crossed that it works out. I wanted to skip it and buy a house too though.
