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While working today the topic of cheating came up. It got me thinking about how different people consider different things cheating. What is cheating to you and do you think its ok for a man or woman before marriage to have one last bachelor/bachorlorette fling And would there be any circumstances where you could forgive?

Under no circumstances would a last 'fling' be acceptable!!!
Cheating is cheating, emotionally or physically. ANy connection of that sort is not cool.

I do no consider going to a strip club as cheating.
just my honest thoughts....

((sighhh))

this has been an issue before with me... and it all depends on the situation... back in the day FH did cheat (just kiss) but he was talking to the girl a lot via text and THAT got me more mad and upset than anything else because they had a connection. Its not like it was a drunk night at a bar (not that that is acceptable either, but sometimes its easier to know they will never speak again, blah blah)

we broke up, for a while, and i realized that i truely loved him, and wanted to be with him, and he realized that this other girl was nothing compared to me. It actually made us stronger ( it took a couple months) after I was able to get over the actual act of cheating....

dont get me wrong, i dont like it, and to this day there is still a part of me that will ALWAYS be a little worried... but that also has to do with some other boyfriends cheati on me to.. i have a hard time trusting anyone, even my girlfriends..

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Posted by jettahot

Under no circumstances would a last 'fling' be acceptable!!!
Cheating is cheating, emotionally or physically. ANy connection of that sort is not cool.

I do no consider going to a strip club as cheating.
just my honest thoughts....

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I completely agree with this!!

under no circumstances is a last 'fling' acceptable! no freaking way.

if FH cheated on me, i'd be done pretty immediately. i have a hard time forgiving, and i know the relationship would pretty quickly deteriorate.