Time again to vent about anything you want!!!!!!

We have done these posts before, so you can search them if you want. But now we all have different things to vent about. Bring them on!!!!!

Why am I still getting mail asking if I have a DJ and/or phtoog? I understand when I first went to an expo our wedding was supposed to be this October. But seriously, if our wedding was supposed to be in a month, wouldn't we already have vendors booked?

To my bosses...... get a clue. When we have a small office and people are on vacation, we need help!!!! Especially when the new TV season is about to come out and we're getting 2-3 times the amount of shows we normally get in a day. HELP US!!!!!

To drivers....... LOOK AROUND YOU!!!! It's called a blind spot for a reason. And blinkers are not optional!!!!! You might know where you're going, but we sure as hell don't!!!!

AND A BIG F-U.......

To my doctors...... I'm going for a second opinion!!!!!! You are telling me to just 'live' with this tumor?!?!?!? That I can hold off surgery?!?!?! I need a woman doctor!!!! F*ck you for saying it'll be okay that I might not have children!!!!!



Bring it on girls!!!! Vent!! It makes you feel better!!! It could be about the wedding or not!!!!

for all the times i'm told to 'figure it out on your own' and then after i find a solution to the 'problem' i get attitude for the solution which actually benefits all involved, but wasn't the solution you wanted me to arrive at....if that's so, why didn't you just tell me what to do????



for expecting me to know what you want for a website design, how to use photoshop when i've never seen the program before. at least i get to laugh that everytime you spend $$$$ to have things printed, you use poor english and don't bother to ask me to proof it....granted, you've learned to use your dictionary, but spelling the words right is only half the battle.

and to all those who enjoy ticking me off on purpose so you can say i'm b*tchy....
i could care less...but then i'd have to give you more thought...and that's just wrong.

wow....i needed this more than i thought!

One BM can just fall off the face of the earth right now!

I thought it was just me....

To my boss (at a job I have only been at for 1 month)... I am not a mindreader. I do not know everything that is going on. Especially for month-end, I have never been here for a month-end before. Can you help a sister out, instead of throwing it at me? I am not stupid. If you show me something, I could possible understand what you mean.

Thanks girls, I really needed that. I have been venting to FH but he is at work too with his own problems.

Good timing!

To FH...Clean up your God dam act before you are on your own...and I, too, am sorry you can't attend your family events b/c they plan them at the very last second when we already have previous engagements. Sorry...NOT..it's called a plan, make one, stick with it...not that complicated. Yes, I know they are more fun but standing up others is unacceptable and rude in case your mommy didn't teach you that. And for God's sake, cut yourself off....there is plenty of beer to go around!

To fellow BM's...pick a f-ing date for her bp already and don't even THINK about excluding me. I'm one of her oldest, closest friends dam it and I am not going to miss it!

To my boss...stop thinking I'm a lot more capable than I am...I have no idea what is going on!

Thanks for that. I feel better.

i have my first fitting tonight and im having a fat day... from the holiday weekend !! I drank and ate too much ...

to certain sellers in long island housing market:

why do you think your pos house is worth so much? you paid $200K less than that 5 years ago, and have let the property turn to sh!t.

Im NOT paying $400K for a crackhouse that needs a ton of work!

To my brother: How dare you quit your job 30 days before my RD!! You were supposed to cook, and give me the deal of the century! Where on earth am I going to find all that food for that price?? Not to mention the quality!!

To the courts: Yes, I am really taking off the entire month of October. I am getting married and taking a LONG HM. Deal with it. I'm sorry if the judge's calendar is full, but that is NOT my problem, and NO there is not another attorney available to go on trial for me!

To FH: Umm, sweetie, a broom is used to get dirt off the tile floor. A dustpan is what you put the dirt in after you get it in a pile so you can pick it up and put it in the garbage. A mop is used to get the grime off said floor after it is swept. That lemony smell is from the 1/2 bottle of Mr. Clean I used to get the aforementioned grime off the floors - deal with it!!! A vacuum cleaner is used to get dirt off rugs. It has a long thing on it called a cord. The cord gets plugged into the wall for power (you know what that is, you use it to charge your cell phone and your NEW blue tooth headset). There is a switch on the vacuum cleaner which will turn it on, and viola! it will start suctioning up the dirt etc that is on the rug. Now that you know what it is, kindly use it!!!

to all members of my family: (note: i work for social security)

STOP asking me to 'peek' at your social security record!! I will be fired immediately and possibly hauled off in handcuffs ( ok maybe not but still. . . )

NO i cannot raise your benefit unless you think a few extra dollars a month is worth me being locked up in federal prison for the rest of my life!

ETA: ok they are joking when they ask this but after 400 times. . .not funny!

to my FILs: just because i dont have kids yet does not mean that my life is some silly little adventure. I work full time and i have many responsibilities . . . yes maybe i do have some extra time to wedding plan and make 'soon to be' shirts BECAUSE i dont have kids - but i shouldnt be made to feel trivial bc i dont have them yet!!

ok i feel better now!

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Posted by Meaghan729

to certain sellers in long island housing market:

why do you think your pos house is worth so much? you paid $200K less than that 5 years ago, and have let the property turn to sh!t.

Im NOT paying $400K for a crackhouse that needs a ton of work!

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I have to agree you on this one.... Makes me nuts to think that I can walk in to a house with no master bedroom and what the call the master bdr has NO closets..... and they want over $400,000.00...

to mom with her lists of lists of things to do

my car for dying on me at the most in opportune moment.... 10 days before wedding.... more money to let go of.......

bm for the other day telling me to get over being the bride ...my day is coming we all know....

for the headache and sleepless nights that I have now.... although I slept like a dream next to fh

for having to clean out my room of all the past.... weird and a little strange....

To my job: How do you expect me as a recruiter to 'sell' my company to possible employees when I am underpaid and under appreciated? If this is such a great company why am I so miserable?

To my 2 bf's: No I do not have an issue with you guys hooking up/dating or whatever you are doing. But as 2-26 year old adults could you please have enough self respect to know what is appropriate in public. When the bouncer has to tell you the his disgusting bar is not the kind of place that allows that much PDA, you know your being slutty. You embarrassed yourselves and me.

To my sister: I am sorry that you are the only one of the 7 of us that wasn't going away for labord ay. But b/c of that you need to go to the labor day race dedicated to daddy. I get that it is hard for you b/c it has only been 5 months but imagine how mom feels. She needs you there and this is not about you its about her. Suck it up and go!

To my FH: No it is not acceptable to drink until you pass out. Even if it is once or twice a year. Cut it the hell out you are pissing me off.

AHHhhhh that feels better.

I just received an email from the SAME girl who didnt' attend my bachelorette party although she PAID for her and her sisters ticket (because of Ernesto traveling up to NY) and lost out on money telling me that she won't be able to come to the wedding because her good friend had a baby and is paying for their AIRPLANE tickets to florida on 10/13 - our wedding day!!! The baptism is on 10/14..and they can't fly out then? Her sister won't come w/out her and now that's 3 places we have to fill.

Yet she expects for me to attend this birthday party for her sister on Saturday? You just cost me over $300!!! I don't think so!! I can't believe that people are so rude!

People who accuse people of doing things they didn't do in the first place or accuse them of instigating things that the person complaining about them has actually brought on themselves by being sinister in their own way and possibly not realizing the sharpness of their own words and how we don't all interpret the same tone because it's a computer. And how some like to point fingers and not learn the facts first before they blast someone for something they actually had nothing to do with.


grrrrr. it's a computer. if you are trying to be sarcastic but in a nice way, it just freaking helps to insert this guy---> or say 'just kidding'


thanks for bumping this.

A: I AM THE BRIDE, do you understand that? is it absolutely NOT appropriate for you to curse me out over a bachelor party I did NOT plan just because you think FH needs a 'last night of freedom'. Thank god he told you to take a hike when you had the audacity to demand a written apology from ME.

S: I am so sorry that we sent your invitation to the wrong address. I was only off my one number. When I didn't hear back from you, I took the time to call and confirm your attendance so please STOP being so cold to me.

FH: PLEASE GET YOUR PASSPORT TAKEN CARE OF. MY GOD~!!!!

Guests: THE DATE TO RESPOND HAS ALREADY PAST the least you can do now is return my emails and phone calls. are you coming or NOT?!?!?

whew - thank you for this thread.

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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella


FSIL: the apple doesn't fall far!!!!!!! GROW UP, get a life and get over yourself!!!!!!!!!!! The world does not revolve around you and there are other things in the world besides your own agenda!!!! oh and cry me a freaking river-- you have to go back to work WAHHHHH!!!!! Let me get the violin-- EVERYONE works, DEAL!!!!!!!!! Stop being the A.F.C.!!!!!!!!!!


God I needed this!!!

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Hahaha......I feel the exact same way about my FSIL! She had off the whole damn summer!

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Posted by Meaghan729

to certain sellers in long island housing market:

why do you think your pos house is worth so much? you paid $200K less than that 5 years ago, and have let the property turn to sh!t.

Im NOT paying $400K for a crackhouse that needs a ton of work!

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I hear ya!!!