Theres 3 guys in my office getting married next summer. They were talking casually with my office manager about how much time they will need off (AT LEAST a week and a half for each of them)
I chime in and say 'yeah, I'm going to need around 2 weeks off myself' and alllllllll of a sudden the mood changes and she says 'hmmm...I'm not sure how much time I can approve you for, I'll have to see'
If I had a d*ck I'd probably get 5 weeks paid vacation...I know it sounds mean but in my office its true
AngnShaun
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w t f that is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MikesBride2B
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Your office manager is a WOMAN and she said that????? WTH is wrong with people...
FallBride2010
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Can she do that? Dont you have a certain amount of vacation that you can use?
JennandAnthony
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That ***** I know how you feel....I used to go through the same thing at work only not wedding related.....it was when I was sick
mzmahagony
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That s u c k s....I'm sorry.....that would piss me off.....
MrsCM
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Have they been there longer than you? That's the ONLY reason I can think of that she may not give you the time you need is if you were new compared to employees that have been there for years.
Soon2bShea
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Posted by FallBride2010
Can she do that? Dont you have a certain amount of vacation that you can use?
I MAY need 1 or 2 days over my allotted vacation days but I didnt think that would be a huge deal for a life event!
FallBride2010
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Can she do that? Dont you have a certain amount of vacation that you can use?
I MAY need 1 or 2 days over my allotted vacation days but I didnt think that would be a huge deal for a life event!
I agree!! It's 2 days!! I hope she approves it. I never even thought about this. I shoud let my boss know now...I want 3 weeks!
Rosalind_75
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what a fcukin C U N T
whats her problem?
Soon2bShea
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Posted by seawedding
Have they been there longer than you? That's the ONLY reason I can think of that she may not give you the time you need is if you were new compared to employees that have been there for years.
I have been here longer then all of them
Lu2700
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wow....thats really ridiculous!
pipermaru
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taht's so weird! girls need way more time than guys!!!!!!!
MarjorieFrank
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That is soooo wrong. You should definitely talk to an HR manager or something, that is blatant sexism
mariedsgn
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ugggggggg!!!
miamimerger
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so unfair.
futuremrsjc2010
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Wow that *****!! WTH and she's a female too? Why does she have to think about giving you time off? Your getting married too....I hope she gives you the time off that you need. That's not fair @ all
AandA2010
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Awful!!!
mbscheer
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That is so wrong Sorry
regy_k
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w t f??? I would 1st submit these days then if she doesnt approve all will go to ur boss or anyone above her and show how these men took the same time and were approved, or just plain old complain. dont worry u know that u will end up getting exactly the days u want. eff the bich!
