tip help

Hello

I know this has probably been asked 12 million times but i made up a little list of whom should be tipped the day of can you tell me if i forgot anyone

altar boys/girls
organist
singer
florist
photographers
bridal attendants
limo drivers
hair person
make up person
dj
and banquet manager

TIA

bathroom attendants (if you'll have them)
waitstaff and barstaff

some halls have a captain that they ask you to tip

and i assume you mean matire d' when you put banquet manager--cause usually one of the BMs is your maitre d' that day

videographer?

and any assisstants to the dj, photo, video?

officiant
valets

We sent our floral tip to the floral designer, who divided it among his staff that made the arrangements, delivered the flowers and set them up at the RH.

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Posted by vika111

bathroom attendants (if you'll have them)
waitstaff and barstaff

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just so u know u are not obligated to tip waitstaff & barstaff.....u tip the matre d, and u also pay fees in ur contract....their tip is taken from both of these.

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Posted by colleen1117

to add to the question...explain how the 20% service charge included in the Rehearsal Hall contract plays into this...for bar tenders wait staff etc.

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What I understand is that really, that should be their tip. If you feel that a member of the waitstaff or the bartenders went above & beyond that you can tip extra to that individual.

you tip the alter boys???
the priest???

my church 'donation' (which is not optional) is already $700 im supposed to give more???