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tipping

amyg1033 Posted:

tipping

Ben at The Bourne Mansion told me I should tip the maitre d $4pp. Does that sound right to you guys?? I think it sounds a little high. I have about 175 people & I thought we would give around $500.00 for him and then $100 for everyone else that I listed below.

Am I missing anyone when it comes to tipping?
Maitre D
Bridal Attendant
DJ
Hair
Photographer
Videographer
Limo

Do I also tip the florist?

The waitstaff/ bartendar don't get a tip from me because that's what the 18% service charge is for, right?
bride2b24 Posted:

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usually they say about 3-5 pp

Summer101 Posted:

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Florist-They say to tip the delivery people- maybe 20 each

melbalalala Posted:

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$4 PP?!?!?! JEEZ!!

Im guessing this Ben fella is good pals with the Maitre' D?

I read that you are only supposed to tip the florist if they come to the site and set up the flowers.
MJDoc12 Posted:

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that's about a decent average. i also have heard of the $3-5 a person--so i gues the $4 falls right in the middle.

but i say tip what you feel comfortable with that day. perhaps you may not feel so great with your matire d' by the days end, or maybe you'll think he was beyond fantastic and want to tip more!

MJDoc12 Posted:

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oh and maybe it's cause i worked in the service industry for awhile (waiting tables, bartending) but i would probably give $20 or so each to the waiters and bartenders. yes the 18% service is part of their pay--but they really don't get much.

hsacks23r Posted:

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Posted by JennandPhil827

Florist-They say to tip the delivery people- maybe 20 each



what if they are droping it off at the place and they charge you 50.00 for deilvery do I still give a tip?
JandJ1224 Posted:

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what if they are droping it off at the place and they charge you 50.00 for deilvery do I still give a tip?

I would give something small, chances are the delivery person isn't going to see that 50 delivery fee
Summer101 Posted:

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Posted by hsacks23r


Posted by JennandPhil827

Florist-They say to tip the delivery people- maybe 20 each



what if they are droping it off at the place and they charge you 50.00 for deilvery do I still give a tip?



Then I probably wouldn't because you might not even be there when they get there?
hsacks23r Posted:

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Posted by JandJ1224

what if they are droping it off at the place and they charge you 50.00 for deilvery do I still give a tip?

I would give something small, chances are the delivery person isn't going to see that 50 delivery fee



true
Anna506 Posted:

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I thought Ben told me $3 a head for the maitre D but that was a long time ago... maybe I remembered wrong.

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