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scatteredx12 Posted:

Tipping

FH and I were just talking about this last night and we aren't sure... Does anyone know who must be tipped at the actual wedding, and a roundabout price? Thanks!

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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Maitre D: Usually specified by RH, or they give an estimate, anywhere from $2-5 pp

BA: $50-100, or more, depending on quality of service

DJ: $50-100 each

Photog: $50-100 each
Florist: $30-50

Hair/MUA: 20% of services, but can be tricky if the person owns the company and then they customarily don't take tips

Limo: Gratuity is usually included, but you can offer an extra $20 if the service was extraordinary

Video: $50-100

I think thats everyone

HTH
sophisticat13 Posted:

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

Maitre D: Usually specified by RH, or they give an estimate, anywhere from $2-5 pp

BA: $50-100, or more, depending on quality of service

DJ: $50-100 each

Photog: $50-100 each
Florist: $30-50

Hair/MUA: 20% of services, but can be tricky if the person owns the company and then they customarily don't take tips

Limo: Gratuity is usually included, but you can offer an extra $20 if the service was extraordinary

Video: $50-100

I think thats everyone

HTH



Crashing...the florist is usually not tipped...if you happen to be there when the delivery guys are setting up, you can tip them about $5 each (this is the amount I heard).
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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Posted by sophisticat13


Posted by mrsdraskin2009

Maitre D: Usually specified by RH, or they give an estimate, anywhere from $2-5 pp

BA: $50-100, or more, depending on quality of service

DJ: $50-100 each

Photog: $50-100 each
Florist: $30-50

Hair/MUA: 20% of services, but can be tricky if the person owns the company and then they customarily don't take tips

Limo: Gratuity is usually included, but you can offer an extra $20 if the service was extraordinary

Video: $50-100

I think thats everyone

HTH



Crashing...the florist is usually not tipped...if you happen to be there when the delivery guys are setting up, you can tip them about $5 each (this is the amount I heard).



Thanks! I wasn;t sure, I figured maybe you tipped the delivery guy!
pjankowski Posted:

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I know this might sound stupid but what is BA?

LaurenJosh Posted:

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Posted by pjankowski

I know this might sound stupid but what is BA?



Not stupid. It took me a while to figure it out! I think it is the bridal attendant.
20mrsc10 Posted:

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this is amazing!! what about cocktail hour or ceremony musicians?

GR2010 Posted:

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

Maitre D: Usually specified by RH, or they give an estimate, anywhere from $2-5 pp

BA: $50-100, or more, depending on quality of service

DJ: $50-100 each

Photog: $50-100 each
Florist: $30-50

Hair/MUA: 20% of services, but can be tricky if the person owns the company and then they customarily don't take tips

Limo: Gratuity is usually included, but you can offer an extra $20 if the service was extraordinary

Video: $50-100

I think thats everyone

HTH




My photogs, video guy and cocktail hour musicians own their won companies... do I have to tip them too? I'm paying my photogs enough to put their kids through their first year at a SUNY College, I don't want to tip them too!!! Haha!! (Althought I do love them).
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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Posted by GinaRandy2010


Posted by mrsdraskin2009

Maitre D: Usually specified by RH, or they give an estimate, anywhere from $2-5 pp

BA: $50-100, or more, depending on quality of service

DJ: $50-100 each

Photog: $50-100 each
Florist: $30-50

Hair/MUA: 20% of services, but can be tricky if the person owns the company and then they customarily don't take tips

Limo: Gratuity is usually included, but you can offer an extra $20 if the service was extraordinary

Video: $50-100

I think thats everyone

HTH




My photogs, video guy and cocktail hour musicians own their won companies... do I have to tip them too? I'm paying my photogs enough to put their kids through their first year at a SUNY College, I don't want to tip them too!!! Haha!! (Althought I do love them).



LOL!!!

I think you could easily offer less than what I stated, maybe offer $50 each if you feel they did an exceptional job. But like I said, if they own the company, they may not accept it (well, thats what everyone always says about the owners of hair salons but I think it also applies to wedding vendors too).

Remember, tipping is NOT mandatory. It should be given for jobs well done, as an added extra; don't let vendors fool you into thinking they're not making a dime off your event or that tipping is mandatory. I've worked in the restaurant/catering field for YEARS and while I made my living off tips (these vendors don't) they aren't required no matter which way you slice it, so if it isn't in the budget, don't feel bad
stinenandy2010 Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent

I've saved these pages re: tipping:

Tipping 1

Tipping 2



thanks, i needed this too!
scatteredx12 Posted:

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Thanks for all this info!!
sophisticat13 Posted:

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Posted by 20mrsc10

this is amazing!! what about cocktail hour or ceremony musicians?



We tipped our steel drum band (CH) $20 each and our dinner singer $50

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