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Tipping Bridal Attendant ?

Nessa79 Posted:

Tipping Bridal Attendant ?

How much is customary
Thank you
Vanessa
JRG71 Posted:

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I think it depends on the reception hall because my bridal attendant gets a cut from what we give to the matre di (?). Or do you tip her on top of that?
bride04 Posted:

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I think we tipped ours $100. She definitely earned it. She was there for anything and everything that we needed. We also tipped the maitre d a few hundred dollars. I don't remember how much, but it was based on a certain dollar amount per person--I think Fox Hollow suggests $3-5pp for the maitre d

HearzBellz Posted:

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I tipped her $150 & FIL gave her an extra $50... she was amazing & took care of everything!

HearzBellz Posted:

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Posted by JRG71

I think it depends on the reception hall because my bridal attendant gets a cut from what we give to the matre di (?). Or do you tip her on top of that?



If she does a good job, I would tip her on top of that. The maitre'd fee is uaually split between maitre'd, captain & bridal attendant....sometimes even the bartender as well, depending on the hall.
itsbouttime Posted:

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we gave her $100

Sassyz75 Posted:

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we also gave $100 b/c she kicked a55

mushsgrl Posted:

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Posted by bride04

I think we tipped ours $100. She definitely earned it. She was there for anything and everything that we needed. We also tipped the maitre d a few hundred dollars. I don't remember how much, but it was based on a certain dollar amount per person--I think Fox Hollow suggests $3-5pp for the maitre d



We are getting married there next year. Do you rememeber the names of your bridal attendant and matre'd? FM me if you want.
samsbride Posted:

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My bridal attendant was awesome. there were some things I thought she could have done but I think the club didn't make it part of her job description. She was always right there when i needed her. She collected all the cards and gifts, held my bouquet, brought us drinks during photos and the reception, brought the BM and I food at the bridal suite, etc. She then packed us up at the end and helped us pack the car.

We gave her $100. I think she earned it. It's not that what she did was so difficult - but just that she didn't miss a beat. She was never in my face and yet was always right there.
suven Posted:

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it's hard to tell.

I tipped her $50. She did a FANTASTIC job, but she did spill water on my guest book and a couple of the pages ripped. Plus, while it was drying out, people weren't able to sign it. I remember a couple of people asking about the book beause they wanted to sign it. But, they never got back around to signing it after it was dry. It was a COMPLETE accident, but hey- I plan to keep that book and give it to my grandkids...

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