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Tipping Maitre D's

LilinBobby Posted:

Tipping Maitre D's

Ok so I don't think the whole $3 per person to tip the Maitre D is bad but I have 3 Maitre D's at our wedding so I have to tip them each that much?? And the 2 bridal attendants too? I mean that gets a bit crazy!!

PazzaRagazza Posted:

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Posted by LilinBobby

Ok so I don't think the whole $3 per person to tip the Maitre D is bad but I have 3 Maitre D's at our wedding so I have to tip them each that much?? And the 2 bridal attendants too? I mean that gets a bit crazy!!



We made one envelope.... only ONE of the MD's is with you the whole night the other two are in CH.

We figured we'd give it to him... and if he wanted to split it he could
LilinBobby Posted:

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Oh ok!! Thank God!! I thought it was all 3 all night..I was like what are they bodyguards? LOL Thanks girlie!! I hope its Frank...I love him! Went for our tasting and it was amazing!

PazzaRagazza Posted:

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my DOC said it was the first time she's ever heard of an RH having more than one MD.

hunterM Posted:

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Is $3pp the rate for most places?

leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by hunterM

Is $3pp the rate for most places?



most places recommend $3-5pp. I gave my MD $3.50pp he wasn't anything special, but he wasn't terrible either. if he was terrible, he was getting $100
hunterM Posted:

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Posted by leesah85


Posted by hunterM

Is $3pp the rate for most places?



most places recommend $3-5pp. I gave my MD $3.50pp he wasn't anything special, but he wasn't terrible either. if he was terrible, he was getting $100



Haha! I guess I need to put a note to self not to seal the envelope just incase!!!
PaddysGirl Posted:

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My hall told us $2 pp for the MD and $1 for the BA .. does that seem really low?

hunterM Posted:

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Posted by PaddysGirl

My hall told us $2 pp for the MD and $1 for the BA .. does that seem really low?



It still works out to be the same $3 pp its just allocated differently. I dont think its low at all. If that what the expect and you give extra thats a bonus for them... IMO
PaddysGirl Posted:

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Posted by hunterM


Posted by PaddysGirl

My hall told us $2 pp for the MD and $1 for the BA .. does that seem really low?



It still works out to be the same $3 pp its just allocated differently. I dont think its low at all. If that what the expect and you give extra thats a bonus for them... IMO



Ahhh thank you! I never thought of it that way.
chliekm Posted:

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We were told $4-$5 for the MD and $150 for the BA.

night_nurse Posted:

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When you say 'we were told'...Ho can they tell you how much the tip is supposed to be?

Bride2013 Posted:

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This should be included in the gratuity...The BA does as much work. I don't mind tipping but i wish the venue can just include it.

night_nurse Posted:

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I have a maitre d friend...he said he'd be happy with $300 despite the number of guests

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