OK wedding is in 10 days and I need to finalize my tips so I can prepare the envelopes. Please review what I have alotted and let me know if you think something is too low or too high, or if I left someone off! Thanks ladies!
I think it looks good and helps me out for my big day
kitt6katt
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Is the catering manager your maitre d?
cdh2672
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I think this looks good and it helps me too! I didn't even think of the tip for the flower delivery person....
pauladanielle
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Looks good! I was told you only need to give about $50 for bridal attendants, but that is of course your own choice :)
cdh2672
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Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?
kattus
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Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?
I wasn't going to tip the BM. Is that ok?
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Posted by kattus
Posted by cdh2672
Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?
I wasn't going to tip the BM. Is that ok?
Me neither only m'd
pinkbunny
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Do you have an MC or only a DJ?
AboutTimeBride
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a wedding book I have says we have to tip the watiters, valet and bathroom attendant. Any numbers for those?
pixietina
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I would probably be doing less than that.
cdh2672
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What about the officiant?? I read somewhere that you aren't supposed to?
PSP
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Are you giving the tips as checks or cash?
Sweetpea1
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Posted by AboutTimeBride
a wedding book I have says we have to tip the watiters, valet and bathroom attendant. Any numbers for those?
I think it depends on your place. Westbury Manor told me only the M'd and bridal attendant.
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Posted by kattus
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Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?
I wasn't going to tip the BM. Is that ok?
I dont think you have to. Not sure about hair/makeup. 15-20% I think.....
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Sorry catering manager should be Maitre'd. FH paper advised $3-$5 pp, but when I called he told me $6-$7. He said that tip is split up amongst other people.
For our Bridal Attendant they advised us between $100 and $150.
For hair and m/u I read 15-20% is typical.
I reviewed this with my FH last night, he actually wants to bump the DJ amount up to $200! We don't have a MC, just a one man DJ. I thought that was alot.
We're getting married in church. You're not supposed to tip the priest are you? Do you give him a gift, or extra donation?
pauladanielle
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I think if you're getting married in a church you're expected to make some sort of donation to the church, but I don't think the priest expects a tip personally. You could get him a gift to say thank you :)
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this list is very helpful!! thank you
Skinewyork
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Wow, SUCH a good idea to post this. Unfortunately, I can't be any help whatsoever, I'm at a total loss with tips! I was going to ask Cheeky Glam what they suggested...