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Rivera2be Posted:

Tips

OK wedding is in 10 days and I need to finalize my tips so I can prepare the envelopes. Please review what I have alotted and let me know if you think something is too low or too high, or if I left someone off! Thanks ladies!

Hair/Make-up person: $100-$120 (For myself & two BM's)
Church organist/singer: $20/each
Altar Boys/Girls: $5 each
Photographer: $150
2nd Shooter: $75
Catering Manager: $350 (125) Guests
Bridal Attendant: $100
DJ: $100
Limo: $50
Florist Bouquet Delivery: $5-$10

pjt212301 Posted:

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I think that it looks pretty good.

tara5533 Posted:

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I think it looks good and helps me out for my big day
kitt6katt Posted:

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Is the catering manager your maitre d?

cdh2672 Posted:

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I think this looks good and it helps me too! I didn't even think of the tip for the flower delivery person....

pauladanielle Posted:

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Looks good! I was told you only need to give about $50 for bridal attendants, but that is of course your own choice :)

cdh2672 Posted:

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Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?

kattus Posted:

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Posted by cdh2672

Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?




I wasn't going to tip the BM. Is that ok?
Sweetpea1 Posted:

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Posted by kattus


Posted by cdh2672

Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?




I wasn't going to tip the BM. Is that ok?



Me neither only m'd
pinkbunny Posted:

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Do you have an MC or only a DJ?

AboutTimeBride Posted:

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a wedding book I have says we have to tip the watiters, valet and bathroom attendant. Any numbers for those?

pixietina Posted:

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I would probably be doing less than that.

cdh2672 Posted:

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What about the officiant?? I read somewhere that you aren't supposed to?

PSP Posted:

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Are you giving the tips as checks or cash?

Sweetpea1 Posted:

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Posted by AboutTimeBride

a wedding book I have says we have to tip the watiters, valet and bathroom attendant. Any numbers for those?



I think it depends on your place. Westbury Manor told me only the M'd and bridal attendant.
Bride2Be78 Posted:

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Posted by kattus


Posted by cdh2672

Also, what is the tipping rule of thumb for hair/ make up?




I wasn't going to tip the BM. Is that ok?



I dont think you have to. Not sure about hair/makeup. 15-20% I think.....
Rivera2be Posted:

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Sorry catering manager should be Maitre'd. FH paper advised $3-$5 pp, but when I called he told me $6-$7. He said that tip is split up amongst other people.

For our Bridal Attendant they advised us between $100 and $150.

For hair and m/u I read 15-20% is typical.

I reviewed this with my FH last night, he actually wants to bump the DJ amount up to $200! We don't have a MC, just a one man DJ. I thought that was alot.

We're getting married in church. You're not supposed to tip the priest are you? Do you give him a gift, or extra donation?
pauladanielle Posted:

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I think if you're getting married in a church you're expected to make some sort of donation to the church, but I don't think the priest expects a tip personally. You could get him a gift to say thank you :)

chrissie0121 Posted:

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this list is very helpful!! thank you

Skinewyork Posted:

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Wow, SUCH a good idea to post this. Unfortunately, I can't be any help whatsoever, I'm at a total loss with tips! I was going to ask Cheeky Glam what they suggested...

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