not only does she tell fh 'you dont have to get married' any time we argue...
i have been having an issue with her lately that she wants to wear the same color as the bridesmaids. i dont think that is ok... so what did she do... went out and got a mermaid style dress- which is what i have.
i am flipping sick of her bs
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I feel ya, girl/
W'T'F with the 'you don't have to get married' BS? What a troll!
IrishAli
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Ugh I am so sorry you have to deal with that
chelley720
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OMG my FSMIL is pulling the same stuff she first wanted like a red color then my FMIL said she was going to wear that color so my fsmil now says she wants to wear a brown which is my girls color....I just dont worry about it till it comes time to order then ill put my foot down and say she cant wear that color.
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seriously- whats wrong with these people???? i feel like she wants to be the flipping bride
chelley720
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Yeah I have to hear it between my FMIL and FstepMIL they constantly fight against eachother and they both want to take over the wedding with all their ideas they want... I just dont tell them anything now and just let them know details after everything is all booked and done!! I fould that works the best!! But thank god my mom is soo good she helps and lets me do whatever I want with out ever trying to change my mind!!
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sorry Col!!
i think a lot of FMIL's still have the umbilical cord attached and they cant bear to let their sons go and are super jealous of the bride
they just cant deal with the attention being on the bride and cant deal with losing their son go
so they behave this way to be spiteful bc they are jealous
im sure you will look wayyyyyy better than her anyway!
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AWWWW so sorry you are dealing with this, it will be okay, don't stress out about it, it will all be okay :)
people just stink sometimes...
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sorry Col!!
i think a lot of FMIL's still have the umbilical cord attached and they cant bear to let their sons go and are super jealous of the bride
they just cant deal with the attention being on the bride and cant deal with losing their son go
so they behave this way to be spiteful bc they are jealous
im sure you will look wayyyyyy better than her anyway!
This!!
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My fmil wanted to wear white w/ silver beading and didn't see anything wrong w/ it!! After fh yelled at her she got a red dress but still!! Sorry you have to deal with that
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Classic case of a mom who doesn't want to lose her baby boy. We feel for you and some of us feel your pain...
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Am I the only one who doesn't think the color matters? My mom wore the exact same color as my brother's wedding party. It looked nice. My FSIL didn't care, she actually helped pick it out.
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Am I the only one who doesn't think the color matters? My mom wore the exact same color as my brother's wedding party. It looked nice. My FSIL didn't care, she actually helped pick it out.
to a certain extent. I don't care if my mom or fmil want to wear the same color as BMs but def not white or ivory and def nothing that will completely clash
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Am I the only one who doesn't think the color matters? My mom wore the exact same color as my brother's wedding party. It looked nice. My FSIL didn't care, she actually helped pick it out.
to a certain extent. I don't care if my mom or fmil want to wear the same color as BMs but def not white or ivory and def nothing that will completely clash
I agree! I would have to murder someone if they wore white! All three mom's are wearing different shades of blue. I love how blue compliments th yellows and oranges of my bridesmaids.
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My fmil wanted to wear white w/ silver beading and didn't see anything wrong w/ it!! After fh yelled at her she got a red dress but still!! Sorry you have to deal with that
go FH!
I'm sorry you're dealing with mama drama
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OMG I cant believe it.... Same here i have been into a BIG roller coaster with my il!!!!!!!!!!!!! They really Annoy us!!!!!
Talk to ur fh... HE needs to step up & stop his mom... My Fh did this and boy am I glad.... My IL wanted to get a Sexy dress that show her cleavage & back!!!!! She wanted to be way too provocative... for God's sake U ARE THE GROOMS MOTHER!!!
She told my Fh once to 'decided if this is really want he wants to do bc we dont have to continue the wedding n wait a while'... What a biytch!!!!!!
So FH talked to her.... and thank God she is where i need things now... She got the dress WE (FH n I) wanted,... the color we wanted & style we wanted.
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Posted by Jennielee15
Am I the only one who doesn't think the color matters? My mom wore the exact same color as my brother's wedding party. It looked nice. My FSIL didn't care, she actually helped pick it out.
to a certain extent. I don't care if my mom or fmil want to wear the same color as BMs but def not white or ivory and def nothing that will completely clash
This!! My FMIL wanted to wear 'taupe', which I thought was tan, but she said it was just like the dress she wore to FBIL's wedding. FYI - that dress was white. Cream, ivory, call it what you want. To a bride, (well me anyway), they all = WHITE Last week she said she was thinking of a wine color (close to my BM dresses) and I almost did a friggin cartwheel!
FH thought he'd be cute and goes, 'Wait ma, you mean a merlot not a pinot right? Cause you can't wear pinot to a wedding, everybody knows that' I almost died, lol
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I feel ya, girl/
W'T'F with the 'you don't have to get married' BS? What a troll!
Im sorry, but ur line of 'what a troll' i am soooo using that from now on! lol that was GREATT! haha
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I'm sorry you have to deal with that
How does FH feel about it? Maybe he can try talking to her to let her know how it upsets you?
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sorry Col!!
i think a lot of FMIL's still have the umbilical cord attached and they cant bear to let their sons go and are super jealous of the bride
they just cant deal with the attention being on the bride and cant deal with losing their son go
so they behave this way to be spiteful bc they are jealous
im sure you will look wayyyyyy better than her anyway!
;) thanks jenni! when she said 'im sure i wont look like you' i said 'oh i am sure you wont look like me either' hahah i know she wont show me up. she isonly going to make herself look like an idiot!
