Re: tired of the copycat!!!!!
did u guys realize how old this was?
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tired of the copycat!!!!!
Original post by eunicsd006
do any of u girls have a copycat...i do!!!!!and im sick of it.....it can be a friend relative or coworker..the copycat never intended on getting married well i get engaged shes had to get engaged....and its like a competition...im exhausted from the wedding planning now i have to put up with this sh*t....sad part is every where i go shes there....she has the same color as i do wich i dont care it wasnt made for me but now if she over hears me talking to some one about somethign i did or want to do there she is trying to top it off.....im getting exhausted trying to avoid her.......i wish she ha an off butting so i could shut her out but i cant shes like family to everyone else................why are people jealous i cant be like that i love my life and wouldnt trade it for anything......oh and finally shes waiting for when i get pregnant to have a kid.......spycho!!!!!!
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haha yea after i replied! This is REALLY old but just goes to show how fast time is flying b/c i remember this post!
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Re: tired of the copycat!!!!!
Posted by shelbygirl
did u guys realize how old this was?
i read this and that was my first thought so i didnt reply. how the heck did this get bumped anyways.
i would say, be flattered! someone loves your ideas.
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I know I should be flattered. But it's like Single White Wedding instead of female![]()
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Posted by shelbygirl
I know I should be flattered. But it's like Single White Wedding instead of female![]()
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Hey Michelle!!!!!
how are you???
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Hello soon2be married lady. How's everything going?
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i had the same problem it stinks but she has seemed to slow down!
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Keep ur plans undercover!!!!
I can't stand that!!
I can't stand that!!
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Guess what ladies the copycat just called. And .................................... She's getting the SAME favor. I don't know if I should laugh, cry, or offer her my RH and date.![]()
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Posted by shelbygirl
Guess what ladies the copycat just called. And .................................... She's getting the SAME favor. I don't know if I should laugh, cry, or offer her my RH and date.![]()
I dont think shes considered to be a copycat anymore, i think she has moved up to stalker status. I would lie, lie, and lie to her about everything!
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I'm going to say something tonigh. That just put the icing on the cake.
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Posted by shelbygirl
I'm going to say something tonigh. That just put the icing on the cake.
good luck! and try not to get upset, you wouldnt want to get into a fight with her right before both of your weddings
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Re: tired of the copycat!!!!!
My sister had a serious copycat who died her hair to my sister's color, bought the same outfits, and even my sister's 'signature' necklace (that she wears all the time)....drove my sis nuts...
But you see, the copycat never was happy: she was trying to be what she considered to be beautiful and perfect: she even said once (after coloring her hair): 'I feel so pretty....now I now what it must feel like to be [insert sis name]'
The copycat is actually a beautiful girl, and has many of her own really spectacular qualities, but for a self-esteem issue, she needed a role model (think of how so many people look at magazines & try to copy hair/makeup...and when we take cutouts of pics: aren't we trying to be copy-cats?). She just used a real girl. My sis now goes shopping with her, etc.
My advice: YES, it seems annoying: but think of how she must think that everything about your wedding is so perfect...it really is more than flattery: and SO WHAT if she has the same florist? You will be unique in your own way...even if she does an exact recreation of your wedding: it will be a recreation: not taking a thing away from yours.
But you see, the copycat never was happy: she was trying to be what she considered to be beautiful and perfect: she even said once (after coloring her hair): 'I feel so pretty....now I now what it must feel like to be [insert sis name]'
The copycat is actually a beautiful girl, and has many of her own really spectacular qualities, but for a self-esteem issue, she needed a role model (think of how so many people look at magazines & try to copy hair/makeup...and when we take cutouts of pics: aren't we trying to be copy-cats?). She just used a real girl. My sis now goes shopping with her, etc.
My advice: YES, it seems annoying: but think of how she must think that everything about your wedding is so perfect...it really is more than flattery: and SO WHAT if she has the same florist? You will be unique in your own way...even if she does an exact recreation of your wedding: it will be a recreation: not taking a thing away from yours.
