TMI Question (TGIF!)

I HAD to wait until Friday to ask this... but it's been bugging me all week.

Do you guys consider a BJ to be a normal part of foreplay... like something that you do almost every time you have sex... or is it a 'special treat' that is only offered on rare occassions.

FH believes it is normal to do every time you have sex, before actual sex, but I am beginning to think that I am the only sucker (HAHAHA) who buys that crap...

This is going to sound pitiful, but I have TMJ, so it's only a treat for FH. I will say, he does appreciate it a lot more now than he ever did before!

Depends on how I'm feeling. I'd say it's part of forplay 50% of the time..I enjoy it but sometimes he prefers to umm..take care of me instead

not a normal part of foreplay for us!

you better show this thread to your FH after... he might be tricking you

It depends on what you two like and what gets you ready. But its not a normal part of what Fh and I usually do. So he knows he's either been a really good boy or I'm really sorry for something

It's an everyday thing here. But he recipricates very well too!

not an everytime thing. its saved for special occasions. Round my house it is considered the happy birthday bj or if he has been a really good boy

i love freaky deeky friday!

hehe anyway--i don't ALWAYS head down south during foreplay. FH and i sometimes forego the appetizer and head straight for the main course!

but i do like doing it...especially since he loves to give as well as receive... YEAH BABY!!!!!!

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Posted by neener1211

lol, um no, it is not a normal part of it for us, and its not exactly a special treat either...its really when I feel like it...lol

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haha!!! I am totally with you!!

YAY!! Great question.

Its not necessarily a 'Special Treat' but often an entree in itself. Sometimes it comes out as foreplay but I dont want to spoil him

Its often a gift when Im unavailable down there a few days each month.....

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Posted by EGreene79

This is going to sound pitiful, but I have TMJ, so it's only a treat for FH. I will say, he does appreciate it a lot more now than he ever did before!

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You're not alone here!!! TMJ makes is really hard (no pun intended) to be down there for too long. I now have a night guard and it's getting better.

I would say I step up to the plate some of the time. It really depends on my mood. He isn't a BJ feind so I don't think he really wants one every time anyway

LOVE the BJ face

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Posted by iBCraZ131

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Posted by neener1211

lol, um no, it is not a normal part of it for us, and its not exactly a special treat either...its really when I feel like it...lol

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haha!!! I am totally with you!!

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This is what I was totally thinking too. I really have to be in the mood to do it, and that is not often....

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Posted by brittny817

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Posted by EGreene79

This is going to sound pitiful, but I have TMJ, so it's only a treat for FH. I will say, he does appreciate it a lot more now than he ever did before!

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You're not alone here!!! TMJ makes is really hard (no pun intended) to be down there for too long. I now have a night guard and it's getting better.

I would say I step up to the plate some of the time. It really depends on my mood. He isn't a BJ feind so I don't think he really wants one every time anyway

LOVE the BJ face

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Ha! Good to hear I'm not alone!

It all depends on my mood. I am more apt to do it when he doesn't 'ask' for it. I'm just a rebel!

But no, not of foreplay every single time.

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Posted by happygirl07

It all depends on my mood. I am more apt to do it when he doesn't 'ask' for it. I'm just a rebel!

But no, not of foreplay every single time.

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I agree. I think when you ask for it it ruins the mood (at least in my case it does) I like to be spontaneous about it