I'm seriously in rare form today so don'tmind my cranky posts today . So my MOH is more then aware that she HAS to get measured this week (even though I've been trying to get her to go for a month now). Now I've been calling her for the past week and half. I know she doesn't check her messages so I have failed to leave her any. II have emailed her informing her I would be in her town to take my other BM to get measured if she wants to come, and nothing. I was her MOH and never did anything of the sort to her. Does she not remember how it felt when someone in the bridal party didn't do what was asked of them!!! Its not some outrageous request, its what is required!! Ughh I'm so pissed and don't know what to do.
vicandbarbara09
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OMG I am going through a similar situation. We all met this past Sat. EXCEPT my MOH !! We were all going to meet at 2pm I had to call HER at 2:50 to find out where she was. She says in a very nonchalant tone 'oh I'm sick'. WHAT??? HELLO??? we work together and she was perfectly fine on Friday when she left work !!
What pissed me off more is that I had to call her!! She couldn't pick up the phone and just tell me I can't make it I'm sick.??
So now the dress order is on hold because of her!! So I told her what she needs to do call the place give them her measurements and payment info and the dresses can be ordered. She then says I'll just get the dress some place else ARE YOU FRIGGIN KIDDING ME ? I even offered to drive all the way to Commack ( I live in Queens) myself to give them the deposit and measurements this Sat.
So i'm still sitting here WAITING ON HER for the info and money
I really want to DEMOTE her to handing out programs at the ceremony. I am giving her till tomorrow to give me what I need!
sorry it's so long
MrsGRod09
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I think you should flat out ask when CAN she go get her dress and if she still complains then order your other girls dresses and forget about her. You can't kill yourself over someone who just doesn't care.
MrsGarcia
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Posted by GRod2Be
I think you should flat out ask when CAN she go get her dress and if she still complains then order your other girls dresses and forget about her. You can't kill yourself over someone who just doesn't care.
I would ask her if actually answered the phone!!!!! I'm just so aggrivated over this!! I shouldn't have to chase people, especially my MOH.
MrsGarcia
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Posted by vicandbarbara09
OMG I am going through a similar situation. We all met this past Sat. EXCEPT my MOH !! We were all going to meet at 2pm I had to call HER at 2:50 to find out where she was. She says in a very nonchalant tone 'oh I'm sick'. WHAT??? HELLO??? we work together and she was perfectly fine on Friday when she left work !!
What pissed me off more is that I had to call her!! She couldn't pick up the phone and just tell me I can't make it I'm sick.??
So now the dress order is on hold because of her!! So I told her what she needs to do call the place give them her measurements and payment info and the dresses can be ordered. She then says I'll just get the dress some place else ARE YOU FRIGGIN KIDDING ME ? I even offered to drive all the way to Commack ( I live in Queens) myself to give them the deposit and measurements this Sat.
So i'm still sitting here WAITING ON HER for the info and money
I really want to DEMOTE her to handing out programs at the ceremony. I am giving her till tomorrow to give me what I need!
sorry it's so long
I'm about to give her an altimatium soon in a email because I'm just furious!
MrsGRod09
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Posted by MrsGarcia
Posted by GRod2Be
I think you should flat out ask when CAN she go get her dress and if she still complains then order your other girls dresses and forget about her. You can't kill yourself over someone who just doesn't care.
I would ask her if actually answered the phone!!!!! I'm just so aggrivated over this!! I shouldn't have to chase people, especially my MOH.
Oh hell no!! Then you should order the other dresses and too bad for her. No you shouldn't have to chase her. You should tell her look i have to order the dresses if you don't want to be in it let me know so i won't BOTHER you anymore.
MrsGarcia
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Posted by MrsGarcia
Posted by GRod2Be
I think you should flat out ask when CAN she go get her dress and if she still complains then order your other girls dresses and forget about her. You can't kill yourself over someone who just doesn't care.
I would ask her if actually answered the phone!!!!! I'm just so aggrivated over this!! I shouldn't have to chase people, especially my MOH.
Oh hell no!! Then you should order the other dresses and too bad for her. No you shouldn't have to chase her. You should tell her look i have to order the dresses if you don't want to be in it let me know so i won't BOTHER you anymore.
Seriously, now I know why alot of girls rather not have a bridal party lolol.. what a freakin pain in the kaboose
MrsGRod09
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Posted by MrsGarcia
Posted by GRod2Be
Posted by MrsGarcia
Posted by GRod2Be
I think you should flat out ask when CAN she go get her dress and if she still complains then order your other girls dresses and forget about her. You can't kill yourself over someone who just doesn't care.
I would ask her if actually answered the phone!!!!! I'm just so aggrivated over this!! I shouldn't have to chase people, especially my MOH.
Oh hell no!! Then you should order the other dresses and too bad for her. No you shouldn't have to chase her. You should tell her look i have to order the dresses if you don't want to be in it let me know so i won't BOTHER you anymore.
Seriously, now I know why alot of girls rather not have a bridal party lolol.. what a freakin pain in the kaboose
Yea that is why i didn't want one but my mother kept harassing . At first it was hectic getting everyone together to order their dresses but finally everyone got on the same page but it was a real royal pain in the behind lol.
