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to invite or not invite....

FutureMrsK2012 Posted:

to invite or not invite....

JenniBella Posted:

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I completely understand where you are coming from.. i would just tell your sister that you are soo sorry but you dont think you can invite them due to the amount of people you have invited already.
Im sure they will understand that you reached your max
VCanizalez Posted:

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NO to invite them....


if u reach ur Max.. then no...

U dont wanna pay over ur budget now...



jassy119 Posted:

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Posted by JenniBella

I completely understand where you are coming from.. i would just tell your sister that you are soo sorry but you dont think you can invite them due to the amount of people you have invited already.
Im sure they will understand that you reached your max



Exactly this! Its amazing how certain ppl just assume they are invited. Esp if you havent seen them in years. Its nice of them to express their excitement for you and want to come but if you dont have the room or the budget for the then u def need to let your sister know.
FutureMrsK2012 Posted:

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Thanks you guys...I decided to offer her this option. She can either pay for them herself, bc I can't afford to, or we can B-list them. Wish me luck when I tell her!

Evan820 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsK2012

Thanks you guys...I decided to offer her this option. She can either pay for them herself, bc I can't afford to, or we can B-list them. Wish me luck when I tell her!



you may have already done this and if so, I hope it went well. otherwise I would def tell her B-list, but not that she has to pay for them. Just that you can't afford to pay for any more. if she offers to pay then great, if not, then not. It seems strange to ask her to pay unless she is already paying for part of the wedding...
leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by Evan820


Posted by FutureMrsK2012

Thanks you guys...I decided to offer her this option. She can either pay for them herself, bc I can't afford to, or we can B-list them. Wish me luck when I tell her!



you may have already done this and if so, I hope it went well. otherwise I would def tell her B-list, but not that she has to pay for them. Just that you can't afford to pay for any more. if she offers to pay then great, if not, then not. It seems strange to ask her to pay unless she is already paying for part of the wedding...



ITA with this
Bride2Be78 Posted:

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Posted by leesah85


Posted by Evan820


Posted by FutureMrsK2012

Thanks you guys...I decided to offer her this option. She can either pay for them herself, bc I can't afford to, or we can B-list them. Wish me luck when I tell her!



you may have already done this and if so, I hope it went well. otherwise I would def tell her B-list, but not that she has to pay for them. Just that you can't afford to pay for any more. if she offers to pay then great, if not, then not. It seems strange to ask her to pay unless she is already paying for part of the wedding...



ITA with this



ITA!!
Nini25 Posted:

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Posted by VCanizalez

NO to invite them....


if u reach ur Max.. then no...

U dont wanna pay over ur budget now...






This exactly.

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