ok so i have a weird situation and im not sure what to do...
i have a friend from college that i sent a STD to and have on my invitation list. we arent AS close as we were in college since she lives OOT but still talk and i wanted to invite her.
she is getting married in july and i just noticed all these ppl have been posting on her facebook that they got her save the date. I haven't gotten one I mean i would totally understand if she couldnt invite me bc they had to limit numbers but you would think she would at least say something....
so if she didnt invite me...should i take her off the list even though i already sent her a STD? or do i invite her anyway?
SoontobeGallagher
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I would invite her anyway. You already sent her the STD. If it is a personal reason maybe she is embarassed. If you want her there, then I would say still invite her.
Rosalind_75
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well since you sent her a std already you should send her the invite
i wonder why you didnt get a std
MrsC2010
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well since you sent her a std already you should send her the invite
i wonder why you didnt get a std
yeah i have no idea...i really thought i would be. we always ask each other how the wedding planning is going. its weird.
rdubs
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I think that if she gets your invite, she will send you an invite back.
She may be in the same boat as you, wondering if she gets invited to your wedding or not.
If you could careless about going to her wedding and want to cut down numbers though, I say you can skip her.
Nina1010
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I would send her an invite...sometimes things get lost in the mail.
AdriandSteve
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If you sent her a std then i'd invite her.
runnerbride1023
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I think you should still invite her. She might still be inviting you but only sent std to close friends and fam? Or since you said she is having a small wedding maybe she wants to invite you but can't? You are inviting her to yours bc you want her to be there when you get married not bc you want to be there when she gets married.
runnerbride1023
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I think you should still invite her. She might still be inviting you but only sent std to close friends and fam? Or since you said she is having a small wedding maybe she wants to invite you but can't? You are inviting her to yours bc you want her to be there when you get married not bc you want to be there when she gets married.
Clover23
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i think you have to invite her at this point.....
HSsweethearts
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Invite anyway. You send a STD, you MUST invite her.
GiannisWifey
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Maybe she didn't sent STD's to everyone??
I would still invite her anyway......
JAAMS
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i'd still invite her...but that is a really weird situation
mariedsgn
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since you sent her a STD - I would just send her an invite
xela
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I would invite her...worst that could happen is she declines and then you decline hers.
wenR
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Maybe she's like me and has'nt sent all of them yet. I am such a procrastinator!
SummerBride10
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Invite her since you already sent the STD
Bride825
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yeah I think you have to invite her
Future Mrs H
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I say invite her since you sent her the STD.
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Posted by Nina1010
I would send her an invite...sometimes things get lost in the mail.
