I am a fairly accomplished singer, and FH always complains that I don't sing to him. I am considering the idea of singing Etta James' 'At Last' to him at our wedding, but I'm concerned that it might come off as sort of self-serving, like I'm trying to hog the spotlight on a day that I should be sharing with my husband. I just can't decide what to do, so I need your feedback!!! What do you think I should do?
kittythestray
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It's your wedding, singing to him would be putting you both in the spotlight! I think it's 'sweet & romantic'. My FH plays guitar & sings and I would LOVE it if he did that for me at the wedding!
BJandDan
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You'll be singing to your husband!!!!!!!! The spotlight will be on the both of you! It would be such a surprise for him!
futuremrsGafforio
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I think that would be a great moment for the both of you!!! Go for it!!!
kam0813
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the day is about you and him and the spotlight will be on the both of you...i think its a wonderfully sweet way to show him how much you love and appreciate him on one of the biggest day of your live together
evnme
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i'm a singer too. i decided that i didnt want to sing at the wedding.
but if u want to, it would be very nice!
October Bliss
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It would be very nice, but if you're concerned about how it will look - do it at the rehearsal dinner! It will be just as romantic!!
cindyandkevin
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Do it!!!!! I would love FH to sing to me, I'm sure yours will love to be sung to!!
Anna506
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Oh yes! I think you should sing! He'll love it! If I was a guest... I'll probably get teary eyed.
TimDogsGal
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I think you should sing to him...I am on the reverse....FH plays guitar and used to sing in bands.....but he never sings in front of me....so...he is going to sing and play a song me ......
MsKitty1274
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I say do it!! My cousin sang to her DH at their wedding, at the ceremony! Don't know how she kept it together!!
chesca
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Ahhhh....I think you should!!! That is so romantic. I would do it if I could sing. It is not 'self-serving', it is sweet and beautiful and a wonderful gift for your husband on the day of your wedding.
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DO IT!!!! My brother sang to his wife at their wedding. Not a dry eye in the house. It makes your wedding unique.
stephanielyse
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If your FH will love it, I say you should ABSOLUTELY sing. My FH is a singer/songwriter and I would love it if he were to sing a song for me at the wedding. He won't, but that's another story.
LaurenluvsTJ
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Yes! I would love it if FH sang to me.
Jen2999
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do it!!
jenheartsrob
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do it! I wish I could lol
ewickens
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It would be sweet and romantic - do it!
I recently saw video from a wedding my Inlaws went to and the Father of the Bride sang a song in Italian to his daughter after their dance and the bride was completely surprised and was in tears!
Just be prepared for the emotions to roll out and have some tissue ready, for when you sing to your FH!
TurboGirl
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I say do it.......I think it will be very sweet!
N.Y.bride
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My friend sang to his bride at their wedding and it was SOOOO sweet!!!!!!
You might want to make an arrangement maybe a minute shorter or so? I just say that because I dont like all eyes on me for too long. But I say definately do it!
