Todays Whine

MrsJPH2012 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 07:36 PM

Todays Whine

Ughhh I've really been wanting to talk to FH because I've been feeling just 'bad' lately... like disconnected from him and stuff.

So tonight he calls 2 hours early because he has some late meetings and as I'm starting to tell him how I'm feeling, he gets a call on the other line at work and says, Oh I gotta go sorry!

Ugh we talked for all of 10 minutes, I still feel like crap, and now I get to wait another 24 hours before I get to talk to him again... booooo!

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Dec 06, 2010 08:35 PM

Re: Todays Whine

FutureWifey Posted: Dec 06, 2010 08:39 PM

Re: Todays Whine

Sorry!

courtnjay2012 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:00 PM

Re: Todays Whine

aww I'm sorry I hope you feel better.

courtneydemarco12 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:02 PM

Re: Todays Whine

Sorry, you need to sit him down and explain to him why you are feeling disconnected to him and what brought this on. This is help and bring you guys closer. If you don't talk to him about how you feel, you will feel this way for a while and keep it inside until something bigger happens.

thefloreswedding Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:26 PM

Re: Todays Whine

How come u cant talk to him for snother 24 hrs?

Sorry i dont kno if u explained this yet?

CaseyCase Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:50 PM

Re: Todays Whine

I;m sorry and I sort of know how you feel. FH and I have been in a major fight since Saturday. I haven't spent any time with him and I am going through withdrawals but I have to hold my ground because I deserve an apology and he needs to realize his behavior is unacceptable. Everyone tells me to stay strong but I just want to cave. Hope things get better soon.

5272012 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 11:15 PM

Re: Todays Whine

UgH im sorry! goodluck..keep us posted!

sjr385 Posted: Dec 07, 2010 03:39 AM

.

MrsJPH2012 Posted: Dec 07, 2010 06:55 AM

Re: Todays Whine

Why Do i always write such long posts!!?!?

Aw thanks girls, you’re so sweet, I feel like I’m allllllways whining about something! One day i'll be over feeling like this and I can go about happily planning a wedding again!!

The reason I can’t talk to him is we live a few thousand miles and time zones apart, I live in Greenland, he lives in WA. I try to use emails but he usually never reads them right away, , and without cell phones to give a quick call or text message I only speak to him once a day right before I go to bed when he gets off work.

SJR- I’ve been back about two weeks but said goodbye to FH almost month ago and oddly enough I think I am still readjusting. That’s exactly how I’m feeling, and I just can’t seem to snap out of it. I think that the trip home, as amazing as it is, made me feel worse about how much time I have left here, even though the time I get to see him again (3 months) is less than the 4 months I had to wait to see him the first time.

Thanks again for letting me vent, it’s easier than doing it to the people I live with because they’re all in the same boat with being away from their families too.

Blah today will be better!

MrsJPH2012 Posted: Dec 07, 2010 06:58 AM

Re: Todays Whine

Posted by CaseyCase

I;m sorry and I sort of know how you feel. FH and I have been in a major fight since Saturday. I haven't spent any time with him and I am going through withdrawals but I have to hold my ground because I deserve an apology and he needs to realize his behavior is unacceptable. Everyone tells me to stay strong but I just want to cave. Hope things get better soon.

Aw Casey, I hate long fights. I'm pretty stubborn too and usually won't cave, but maybe you can still strike up a convo explaining why you deserve an apology and you can start feeling better Hugs to you too!