Tonight is my bachelorette party and my fh's bachelor party. I hope tonight goes well we have had so many problems planning this and now we got snow today and people are canceling on me even though the party bus would be picking them up and dropping them home
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My girls and I had a good time out. My sister went all out on me and so did my friends. The clubs were dead maybe a 100 people if that. That night though got wrecked when my friend got drunk and started getting sick all over the club. She got us kicked out and we went to another place that only had about 20 people. It was awful. I felt bad that my friend wrecked the night for everyone and that we all were sober still. My fh also didn't have that great of a time at his bachelor party and he is upset about it cause it didn't turn out the way he wanted it. I feel awful we both had a bad night but it upsets me more that he didn't get what he wanted. I am use to being disappointed and things getting messed up for me but when it happens to my fh it kills me. So last night was a waste of time and money. I should have canceled mine and either not had one or made it for next weekend. I am kicking myself for this. I wanted these two parties to be fun and what we wanted and we both got disappointed and had an awful time.
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Where are you guys going? Be careful out there!
2009wedding
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We are going to a few clubs on Long Island and my fh is going to a few strip clubs on Long Island
meara
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oh have fun and remember even if fewer people show up it will be so memorable and special so just enjoy no matter what!!!
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have fun and stay safe!!! you'll have a great time!!!!
Dani777
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Have a great time and be plenty safe. Make sure to wear some nice comfy boots..
GT143EA
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Have fun!
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have a great time!
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that sounds fun! have a good time n be carefull its still icky out
gina409
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have a great time and just think when u get drunk and fall down u wil land in snow and it wont hurt
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My girls and I had a good time out. My sister went all out on me and so did my friends. The clubs were dead maybe a 100 people if that. That night though got wrecked when my friend got drunk and started getting sick all over the club. She got us kicked out and we went to another place that only had about 20 people. It was awful. I felt bad that my friend wrecked the night for everyone and that we all were sober still. My fh also didn't have that great of a time at his bachelor party and he is upset about it cause it didn't turn out the way he wanted it. I feel awful we both had a bad night but it upsets me more that he didn't get what he wanted. I am use to being disappointed and things getting messed up for me but when it happens to my fh it kills me. So last night was a waste of time and money. I should have canceled mine and either not had one or made it for next weekend. I am kicking myself for this. I wanted these two parties to be fun and what we wanted and we both got disappointed and had an awful time.
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Well in the beginning you said you had a good time but towards the end of your post you said you were extremely disappointed and it was a waste. I'm sorry you and FH didn't enjoy your parties. You have a long life ahead of you and you will enjoy many good times together.
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aww im so sorry u didnt have fun...why dont u and just a few friends just go to a local bar or have a bm sleepover and do a mini second one it wont be the same but with the right music n right alcohol u guys can have a great time
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sorry to hear it didnt go so well! thats the thing that sux about the winter... the weather is so freakin unpredictable... as for that drunk friend of yours, sounds like she thought it was her BP instead And I'm sure your FH had to have a decent time... he went to strip clubs didnt he?!? maybe he just said what he said so you wouldnt feel worse about how yours went
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sorry your night didn't go as planned. . maybe you and FH should go out and have your individual 'jack and jill' party. .. just have a crazy decadent night for yourselves with a driver or something. . or in the city. . know it's not the same but it could be fun
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Posted by meara
sorry your night didn't go as planned. . maybe you and FH should go out and have your individual 'jack and jill' party. .. just have a crazy decadent night for yourselves with a driver or something. . or in the city. . know it's not the same but it could be fun
I'm sorry your night didn't go too well. I agree with this.. great idea!!
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Awwwwwwww OMG I'm soooo sorry!!! Maybe you should just go out another night and go with a bunch of your friends and with your FH and a bunch of his friends. I know... sometimes I get really disappointed when things dont go as planned.... and I've had those nights where one girl gets wasted and the rest of the group has to deal with that one person... Im really sorry you both had a terrible time
im sorry things didnt go the way u wanted!! dont be so hard on urself!! so it didnt go exactly as u wanted, and FH's didnt either, but u know what, what matters is u spent time with ur girls for U and he spent time with his guys for HIM! so it wasnt perfect, nothing ever is! believe me, compared to some crazy things ive heard of happening on bachelor and bachelorette parties, it may have been a good thing that they didnt go exactly as wat was wanted. Look at things in a good way, u r getting married to the man of ur dreams! so one night didnt go well, plan a diff one, even afer the wedding. Or plan something else, but be happy!!!! u deserve to be happy!
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I think my sister is planning something else for my fh and I. She really wants to make sure we have fun and have a great time. This time we are leaving out my friend(she is actually in the wedding party). Everyone in my bridal party is now worried about her acting like this at my wedding. I tell you nothing ever comes easy for me or goes well for me. This is just another thing that shows I have really bad luck. Thank you ladies for everything. I just really feel bad still about both parties being awful. It wouldn't have been so bad if my friend hadn't drank so much and wrecked everything and got us kicked out of the club. The worst part about all of this I had to call her parents at 1:30am to have them come and get her cause if we aloud her on the bus and she got sick it would have cost my sister $300 extra to have them do clean up on the bus. I hated calling my friends parents and them saying there sorry over and over again to me for there daughter wrecking my Bachelorette party.
