Tonight is my bachelorette party and my fh's bachelor party. I hope tonight goes well we have had so many problems planning this and now we got snow today and people are canceling on me even though the party bus would be picking them up and dropping them home
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My girls and I had a good time out. My sister went all out on me and so did my friends. The clubs were dead maybe a 100 people if that. That night though got wrecked when my friend got drunk and started getting sick all over the club. She got us kicked out and we went to another place that only had about 20 people. It was awful. I felt bad that my friend wrecked the night for everyone and that we all were sober still. My fh also didn't have that great of a time at his bachelor party and he is upset about it cause it didn't turn out the way he wanted it. I feel awful we both had a bad night but it upsets me more that he didn't get what he wanted. I am use to being disappointed and things getting messed up for me but when it happens to my fh it kills me. So last night was a waste of time and money. I should have canceled mine and either not had one or made it for next weekend. I am kicking myself for this. I wanted these two parties to be fun and what we wanted and we both got disappointed and had an awful time.
coldasice217
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Oh no!!! I'm so sorry! I hope you have a great time regardless, and most importantly, be careful!!!
poeticmelody
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aww man! People already canceled? Why are they so afraid of like 2 inches of snow?? esp. when they are going to be picked up and dropped off...
Well, I'm sure you'll still have a blast!!!!
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My girls and I had a good time out. My sister went all out on me and so did my friends. The clubs were dead maybe a 100 people if that. That night though got wrecked when my friend got drunk and started getting sick all over the club. She got us kicked out and we went to another place that only had about 20 people. It was awful. I felt bad that my friend wrecked the night for everyone and that we all were sober still. My fh also didn't have that great of a time at his bachelor party and he is upset about it cause it didn't turn out the way he wanted it. I feel awful we both had a bad night but it upsets me more that he didn't get what he wanted. I am use to being disappointed and things getting messed up for me but when it happens to my fh it kills me. So last night was a waste of time and money. I should have canceled mine and either not had one or made it for next weekend. I am kicking myself for this. I wanted these two parties to be fun and what we wanted and we both got disappointed and had an awful time.
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sorry to hear this. now that you got all the snafu's outta the way, your wedding will go smooooooooth...
2009wedding
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I hope our wedding day goes well. I can't take anymore of things being wrecked or getting disappointed. I can't take seeing my fh disappointed. I am so upset that his went bad too. I wanted him to have a blast with his guy friends. I also wanted him to enjoy himself at the strip club.
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Maybe you guys could have another bachelor party? Set a date and place to meet (so maybe no limo this time to save money) and then go out again to make up for this time? I'm sure your bridesmaids/ushers (or whoever was invited) feel bad too that you didn't have a good time, esp. since it was important to you guys...it could be another girls night out....
feel better!
2009wedding
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I think my sister is planning something else for my fh and I. She really wants to make sure we have fun and have a great time. This time we are leaving out my friend(she is actually in the wedding party). Everyone in my bridal party is now worried about her acting like this at my wedding. I tell you nothing ever comes easy for me or goes well for me. This is just another thing that shows I have really bad luck. Thank you ladies for everything. I just really feel bad still about both parties being awful. It wouldn't have been so bad if my friend hadn't drank so much and wrecked everything and got us kicked out of the club. The worst part about all of this I had to call her parents at 1:30am to have them come and get her cause if we aloud her on the bus and she got sick it would have cost my sister $300 extra to have them do clean up on the bus. I hated calling my friends parents and them saying there sorry over and over again to me for there daughter wrecking my Bachelorette party.
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I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad time at your bachelorette party! Why did your FH not have a good time? Hopefully you will get to have another party and it will be fantastic
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that's awful! maybe you and your bridal party can go out to dinner next weekend or something... maybe not invite the girl who can't hold her alcohol!
2009wedding
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If we do do another Bachelorette party I am not telling my friend. To many people didn't enjoy theselves because of her and some of them were my cousins. I have no idea what my sister was thinking of but I know she wants to do something nice for fh and I since both of us didn't enjoy our party. She wants something to be special for us before our wedding day that doesn't get wrecked by someone or drama. So my sister who has a heart of gold is trying to think of something for us and really wants it to be nice. My fh didn't have a good time cause he had people cancel on him to and had to pay extra money out of his pocket cause he didn't want anyone else to pay for it so he took it on himself to pay for the people that didn't show since they had to pay for 10 people even if they weren't there. My fh is really sweet and doesn't like to put things on other people. There was also other things that happened which caused his night to end which my fh didn't care cause he was tired but all I wanted was this to be a perfect night for him and for him to enjoy himself and to let loose. I can't believe we both had a bad time. It is bugging me that both of us can't enjoy anything. And this one thing we were both looking forward to and were very excited about turned out awful and not what we wanted it to be. It hurts and its disappointing.
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Well, plan on doing something low key, and without your friend. Focus on your wedding after, Dont worry.. a bachelor/ette party is just a small part of what the wedding is about.
JSG10506
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sorry you had such a terrible time; maybe next weekend you guys can just go out to a bar or something to sort of make up for a wasted night
xosweetiexo
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Sorry, but I was just wondering how old your friend is? I cant believe she ruined your party!! Does she do this all of the time? If she does, I would have a long talk with her about it b/c she might do the same thing during your wedding... maybe she shouldnt drink if she cant handle her liquor well.... I'm really sorry this happened to you!!! Hopefully the 2nd time around will be better!
