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Too Many weddings to go to.....

btrflygrl Posted:

Too Many weddings to go to.....

We just got our 3rd invite for this year!!!

We have a Vegas wedding in May (she flew all the way from Minnesota to come to our wedding in NY!!!)

The friends we made down here in GA are getting married in August up in Philly.


One of my bridesmaids is having her wedding down in Florida in October...


Do we go to all? Do we pick 2 out of 3? Which ones??
jantany26 Posted:

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Can you afford to go to all of them? if you can go for it, if not than I guess I would go the ones that you are closer to, friendship wise.

FTRBRIDE Posted:

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We have our wedding (Sept. 4th), one of my BM's wedding in Cape May, NJ (Oct. 15), FH's step-brother's wedding in Seattle (Oct. 22), and my brother's wedding on Long Island (Nov. 6th). We're going to all, and it's costing us a ton. Believe it or not, it is costing us almost double to go to Cape May, NJ (and i'm not the biggest Jersey Shore fan) than to go to Seattle. All of these people are coming to our wedding though, so it's the right thing to do to go to theirs.

We are also invited to one more wedding in South Carolina the weekend of Thanksgiving, but we're not going (even if they come to ours). They didn't send out save the dates so none of us can book in advance, and it's the busiest travel weekend of the year (and very expensive, so I think it's really inconsiderate that they didn't send save-the-dates). No thanks, we'll stay home with our families and eat turkey!
2003fallwedding Posted:

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I have a wedding June 25, July 9, July 16 and July 30! Thankfully they are all local but I will be broke with all those gifts....LOL

eogara Posted:

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I feel your pain... including ours, we have 8 in the next 4 mos.

Us - April 3rd
Friend (in South Carolina) - April 23rd
Friend - May 7th
Cousin (in Florida) - May 22nd
Honeymoon in June for 2 weeks
I'm a BM July 3rd
Family Friend (in Hamptons) - July 16th
I'm the MOH July 24th
Friend - July 29th

And then we're FREEEEEEEEEEE!!!
tourist Posted:

Re: Too Many weddings to go to.....


Posted by btrflygrl

We just got our 3rd invite for this year!!!

We have a Vegas wedding in May (she flew all the way from Minnesota to come to our wedding in NY!!!)

The friends we made down here in GA are getting married in August up in Philly.


One of my bridesmaids is having her wedding down in Florida in October...


Do we go to all? Do we pick 2 out of 3? Which ones??



Well, I woudl definitely go tothe Bridesmaid's wedding. It is the closest to you geographically & she was IN your wedding.

The Vegas wwedding, it would be ncie if you could go, there are usually cheap flights to Vegas, but I'm not sure about from down there & since it is in vegas, I'm sure she would understand ig you couldn't go.

The one in Philly, I would skip if you had to. They are new friends & they live near you, so you c an take them out to celebrate when they return.
If you can manage to go to that one though, maybe you can extened the trip & visit family in NY.
nov04LIbride Posted:

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I would definitely skip Philly and possibly Vegas too. Is it a little white chapel wedding? I just got back from Vegas and didn't love it.

Jmg11 Posted:

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Last year we had 15 weddings to go to and we went to every one!!!!

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