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luckycouple05 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:13 PM

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Becca2010 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:15 PM

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Is there any chance that FH will try to convince you not to cancel? You think you will waiver in your decision?

Maybe you just need some reassurance...

AngnShaun Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:15 PM

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when did this happen... i thought you just posted that you did your menus and stuff???

mariedsgn Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:21 PM

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Breathe, and think about what you are about to do. Maybe you are stressed because the wedding is so close and you still have stuff to do. People won't notice if you don't have every detail.

the wedding is not about one day it's about your life together.

lots of hugs! what happened?

Soon2BNavi Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:23 PM

Re: So I am doing it tonight..

why are you saying anything didn't turn out as planned. maybe you and FH need to sit back and take a breather, reassess the situation and then decide what you want to do. don't make any rash decisions

luckycouple05 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:26 PM

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AngnShaun Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:28 PM

Re: So I am doing it tonight..

i FM'd you this... but why not try pushing it back to winter?

luckycouple05 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:30 PM

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I am leaving for 3 months to Hong Kong for work. I won't be back until December and FH and I wanted to be married before I left so he's able to acquire a visa to visit faster.

allornil Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:32 PM

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Posted by luckycouple05

Its embarrassing to even post it here, we are short for the final payment. We maximized our ways of paying for it and we were counting on one source and that person can't do us the favor anymore.

don't ever be embarrassed about that. I guarantee you most people really struggle to get those payments in.

I'm so sorry about this. maybe when you all sit down someone will come up w something.

mariedsgn Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:33 PM

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call the RH and see if there is anything that they can do, maybe take something out to get rid of the balance or see if they have other payment plans. so sorry

Soon2BNavi Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:33 PM

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maybe you guys can cut some things out at the RH like stations at CH or get rid of your VH if you have one..to cut the total cost to make it easier for you guys

halfbaked Posted: Aug 13, 2010 04:34 PM

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I'm sorry you're going through this! I just sent you FM!

jackieee Posted: Aug 13, 2010 05:17 PM

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I just read more and saw it was about the final payment. TALK TO YOUR RH!!!!!! Cut out some stations...set up a payment plan. Maybe they can work with you, esp if you're only short a little!!!!!!!

im sorry!