So the FH and I are going back and forth about how many flower girls/ring bearers we're going to have... If it were up to me I would either have my two younger cousins be the flower girls and his nephew be the ring bearer OR his niece be the flower girl and a different little cousin of mine be the ring bearer...
His solution is to just add all of them in. so he wants 3 flower girls, 2 who are very close in age (6 & 7) and that are sisters, exactly the same height... and his niece who is going to be 3 and very tiny LOL and two boys that are the same age...
I don't know I think I might be caring too much about this but I'm not quite sure what to do. Think I should just let all the kids in it and call it a day?
kedra5
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So the FH and I are going back and forth about how many flower girls/ring bearers we're going to have... If it were up to me I would either have my two younger cousins be the flower girls and his nephew be the ring bearer OR his niece be the flower girl and a different little cousin of mine be the ring bearer...
His solution is to just add all of them in. so he wants 3 flower girls, 2 who are very close in age (6 & 7) and that are sisters, exactly the same height... and his niece who is going to be 3 and very tiny LOL and two boys that are the same age...
I don't know I think I might be caring too much about this but I'm not quite sure what to do. Think I should just let all the kids in it and call it a day?
I had a similar issue...we have 9 kids between us but in the end we just picked one from each family member if that makes sense haha. It wdve been too much...plus we picked the ones that we are closest to. So we have 3 FG and 1 RB
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You're lucky you have 9... our guest list is 100ish and 21 are kids... like under the age of 12 kids ... lol but i guess 3 and 1 isn't too bad :/ sigh... we still have more time! lol thank goodness!
Thanks for your feedback chicka!
kedra5
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Wow...thats a lot of kids hahaha. We are actually have an adult only reception with the exception of immediate family....ie nieces and nephews!!
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i actually like the 3/2 idea maybe thats cause i love kids lol i dont know but did you think about pairing a gril and boy and 2 girls with another boy?
Im having 2 girls one boy or 1/1 not sure yet but thats bec i dont have many babies in my fam lol
SoonToBeMrsONeill
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Ooo that's a cute idea! Meanwhile, Adelya, I'm pretty sure you know the one older cousin that I have lol, Christina :)
Thanks for the feedback ladies!
And 21 IS immediate family only :(
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I say have them all, no need to ruffle feathers over this one. We are having 5 ring bearers, all nephews, couldn't see it any other way. Who knows whether they will walk, but at least they are all acknowledged!
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i actually like the 3/2 idea maybe thats cause i love kids lol i dont know but did you think about pairing a gril and boy and 2 girls with another boy?
Im having 2 girls one boy or 1/1 not sure yet but thats bec i dont have many babies in my fam lol
I like the 3/2 idea too - I love kids but I only have 1 FG and wish there were little boys so I could have a RB. My florist said I should 'rent' one! HHAAHAHA
