Totally pissed at FH

So we haven't spoken since last night, went to bed mad and I still am waiting for an apology. He called me incompetent. Excuse me. All because I don't want to do something he asked me to do I am incompetent and then he had the nerve to throw in my face that I have been complaining that I've been bored at work. Hello, I am new to the insurance field and I am LEARNING so of course I am going to bored for awhile but that doesn't mean I want to do what he asked me to do. Its something to do with his parents and I don't want to be involved. I know the Chantix is to blame for his outbursts. But he stepped over the line last night by calling me incompetent and now I am really p*ssed at him. I'm actually happy that I am working both jobs today so I don't have to see him.

Sorry had to vent. Really ticked off.

ouch!! try to relax maybe today you will be relaxed

im sure he didnt mean it. sometimes words just fall out of ppls mouths. talk to him tonight and tell him it hurt you.

gl hun!

try not to let it bother you...I know what he said was rude but point it out to him when he does call and explain to him how you feel.....im sorry hun!!!

men

Ugh Date Twin, we have a lot in common! FH says things like that to me every so often and it really hurts. I've learned that the silent treatment works pretty well. When I was younger, I called him every 5 minutes and I wound up apologizing for the shittt he said! Now I've learned. No talking + attitude = him asking what's wrong (yeah right, like he doesn't know) and then I say something sarcastic, in this case it would be like, 'Oh I'm sorry, I'm just being incompetent.' Then he'd call me big poo (no joke) and possibly apologize. POSSIBLY.

Now I'm angry. LOL

I hope he apologizes for that craap. Keep us updated.

I'm sorry you guys are fighting - but how is he doing on the Chantix? I've heard horror stories about this medication. Do you really think it is to blame for his mood? How is it helping his smoking? I quit smoking using the Commit Lozenge and would highly recommend it.

Aww, sorry that you are fighting.

Sorry Dani that really *****... it is totally uncalled for...

Wow that was not very nice of him, I'm pretty sure he didn't mean it, he probably was mad b/c you didn't want to do him a favor but still that no excuse.Yes he certainly does owe you an apology. Hope you guys work things out

They say alot of stupid things sometimes!!!
It'll be ok!

Aww, I'm sorry. We all slip up and say very mean things from time to time...often because of stress or current situations - I'm sure the fact that he's quitting smoking has him very on edge.

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Posted by CappyGirl

I'm sorry you guys are fighting - but how is he doing on the Chantix? I've heard horror stories about this medication. Do you really think it is to blame for his mood? How is it helping his smoking? I quit smoking using the Commit Lozenge and would highly recommend it.

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I'm 100% sure its what caused his mood. Chantix is great for quitting smoking but the side affects are the worst. When I took a form of it years ago my mood swings were uncontrollable and the dreams were extremely wierd.

He had this reaction the last time, plus funky dreams, being nauseous and headaches so I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt but there is a point of stepping over the line. Mostly everyone I know who has taken Chantix has had the mood swings. It helps with quitting smoking but the side effects s u c k!

I'm so sorry... yeah, Chantix has evil side effects. At least you have the comfort of knowing he's not himself right now - I am sure he didn't mean it. Hang in there - it will all be worth it when he's a non-smoker.