totally stressed!

Ahhhhh i just need to vent. I am having chest pains. First my invite proofs are in and i get so nervous because it's sooo easy to miss something! Then....my shower isn't a surprise, but i told everyone I wanted nothing to do with the planning but they are making that difficult! My mom keeps telling/asking me things as does my MOH who is now on vacation and she got the ball rolling before she left and left it to everyone else! lol I know she'd do it when she gets back but the BM who can print them is off this week from school and has to do them now! So everyones calling me asking me questions and I just want to be left out!!!

Ok...vent over....breathing

I'm sorry they are stressing you out. I have a solution for you....don't answer the phone!
There is time and they can handle everything when they get back from Vacation.

Don't stress yourself out!

i totally feel your pain. i know about my shower, also said i didn't want to be involved or stressed but my mom hasn't even sent invites yet... my sister called me asking what i wanted to do for a suite in AC for my bach... which is fine but i'm like, really whatever you decide is fine.

for PR, i booked the room and the flights even though my friend said she would plan it for me she did nothing

oh and i didn't even order my invites yet, so don't stress

Sorry you are stressed right now. I am going thru much of the same w/ my Matron of Honor. She is trying to do the bulk of the shower planning since my sister (MOH) is only 18.

Try and step away from the situation and it won't feel so bad

OK.....try to relax!!!
Things will get less stressfull....if someone calls you just let them know you're not involved and really don't know anything about it. Then they can all deal with it themselves! It'll all work out!

you can post your proofs here if you want more sets of eyes to check for mistakes.

we just sent back our second set of proofs this morning -- i just want the layout to look like the sample

I can definitely relate!!! My bridal shower is not a surprise either and I had to say multiple times that I want nothing to do with it. Except of course to show up and get gifts!!