had a falling out w/ a good friend a few years ago. things have been somewhat tense/fake ever since (we were BM together in a wedding a few months ago so we had to see each other).
she's getting married over the summer - I sent her a STD and she didn't send me one....
not sure what to do??? do I still invite? should I say something?
Becca2010
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Who's getting married first?
flibbertigibbet
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B .. no.
C-List her.
PDsWIFEPK
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Who's getting married first?
she is!
Alyssa79
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i'd D-invite her (sin off to Becki's post)
grkbarbie
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ru positive she even sent out stds..and if she did..maybe it was to relatives?
wait til u get an invite 1st
Becca2010
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In the end, the order doesn't matter. Don't invite her. Not worth it.
elp6421
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I think I would still invite her. Chances are she may not come, but atleast then you come out as the bigger person...JMO
PDsWIFEPK
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she def sent out STDs, a mutual friend got one.
so - don't invite her, even though I sent her a STD?
what if i accidentally run into her??
i hate this!
StaceyWill
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Posted by elp6421
I think I would still invite her. Chances are she may not come, but atleast then you come out as the bigger person...JMO
ITA
Lil OC
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I would still invite her and come off as the better person, unless you totally hate her guts or really need to cut people from your list.
JayBee216
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Hmm - this is hard.
I would not invite her, and if you happen to run into her, keep it cold and polite. And make a quick exit!!!
vv117
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if it makes you uncomfortable, then send her the invite. she won't come and you come off like a better person who is looking to move on.
Jtruran
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Posted by grkbarbie
ru positive she even sent out stds..and if she did..maybe it was to relatives?
wait til u get an invite 1st
i think the same...some ppl do not send STD's
Iluvpoodles
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So you have had no communication in years and when you did see her last things were tense? Why would you invite her?
