Trusting my DOC with my final payment and tip envelopes....

The one vendor I haven't really clicked with during the planning is my DOC

I would really love to trust her to handle giving the final payments / tips to my vendors, but something makes me hesitate. Why??

I just feel nervous giving her over $2500 in cash...also, she is the one vendor I'm not tipping (cause she *****), and she's going to quickly realize that I'm tipping everyone besides her.

I don't want anyone to have to worry about holding onto the money...so I guess I will have her handle it. Maybe I will include a tip for her just so she doesn't feel angry (might be better just to make her happy instead of risking her not paying my vendors).

Then again, maybe I am just totally overanalyzing things as usual....

Put everything in pre marked envelopes and seal them. Have her sign for the number of envelopes you are giving her.

This is what I will be doing because it is ALOT of money to trust with a perfect stranger.

Just say listen.. to protect us both here is a list of the vendor envelopes i am giving you, do you mind signing you received them?

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Posted by Jen2999

Put everything in pre marked envelopes and seal them. Have her sign for the number of envelopes you are giving her.

This is what I will be doing because it is ALOT of money to trust with a perfect stranger.

Just say listen.. to protect us both here is a list of the vendor envelopes i am giving you, do you mind signing you received them?

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that is a great idea - never thought of that!! are you having her sign off on a certain amount or are you just having her sign off that you gave her x amount of envelopes?

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Posted by johnsae

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Posted by Jen2999

Put everything in pre marked envelopes and seal them. Have her sign for the number of envelopes you are giving her.

This is what I will be doing because it is ALOT of money to trust with a perfect stranger.

Just say listen.. to protect us both here is a list of the vendor envelopes i am giving you, do you mind signing you received them?

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that is a great idea - never thought of that!! are you having her sign off on a certain amount or are you just having her sign off that you gave her x amount of envelopes?

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Umm I will prob seal them all and write the names on them and have us both sign how many and that they are sealed.

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Posted by Jen2999

Put everything in pre marked envelopes and seal them. Have her sign for the number of envelopes you are giving her.

This is what I will be doing because it is ALOT of money to trust with a perfect stranger.

Just say listen.. to protect us both here is a list of the vendor envelopes i am giving you, do you mind signing you received them?

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Great idea!! It ***** that you feel this way about her but if you feel she doesn't deserve a tip I wouldn't give her one upfront...wait to see how the night goes.

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Posted by msnora

Um.... I dont hink you should give her that if you dont like her /him enough to tip her then pleas don't give her all of that cash !!

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I totally agree.....