Trying to help plan my bachelorette party is making me miserable.

mrsgtobe Posted: May 24, 2006 08:43 PM

Trying to help plan my bachelorette party is making me miserable.

I need help, girls.

I've been trying to help my BMs come up with some ideas for my bachelorette party. I have all kinds of ideas, but the problem is that my sister (MOH) is 20 and can't get into the bars or clubs that I want to go to. I wanted to go away for the weekend to AC or the Hamptons or something, and nothing seems to be working out. I'm getting frustrated and I'm starting to feel like I don't even want to have a bachelorette party anymore.

What can I do?? Help!!

jellybean1420 Posted: May 24, 2006 08:49 PM

Re: Trying to help plan my bachelorette party is making me miserable.

Don't cancel your bachelorette party. One of my BM's is 20 and the rest are all students so don't have a lot of $$$$. I am not sure what they planned exactly, they want it to be a surprise, but just being able to go out and have a good time and laughs with my friends is enough for me. Everyone's schedules are so hectic I hardly get to see everyone, let alone us all actually getting to hang out together.

Call around some places in the city. There are places that will let underage in for a bachelorette party. Some might not even check if you have a group. Don't cancel it yet. Just keep looking. The girls on here had a lot of good ideas.

SweetCin704 Posted: May 24, 2006 09:44 PM

Re: Trying to help plan my bachelorette party is making me miserable.

I had this problem w/ my first wedding 10 years ago....grooms' sis was 19 & we mainly drove around LI all night trying to get into places & ended up in arguments & it wasn't a fun night.

Did you try 'The Awesome 80's Prom' its a show at Webster Hall & I'm thinking they should let under 21 in....

ayadali Posted: May 24, 2006 10:19 PM

Re: Trying to help plan my bachelorette party is making me miserable.

My sister is 19 - we compromised and are going to do a spa day - just the two of us. That way I can have my fun with my other BMs and still do something special with my sis.