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Tux Questions - updated with a pic

HotAir Posted:

Tux Questions - updated with a pic

I was at kohls and like the psycho I am I carry a swatch of the BM's dresses...
well, I found a tie that matches perfectly! So, I bought a bunch of them to possibly use for the guys.

1. Does the groom usually do white or ivory and just the guys do the color?

2. What does the father of the bride wear?

Tell me if you honestly think this tie would look OK with a black tuxedo.


Although this picture of the dress is not my dress it is the color of it.


meara Posted:

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I was just at tux place today and this is the info I heard (but I think really it's all about what you want and there's no strict rules anymore)

they told me - the groom wears white (vest/tie) or white with black bow tie

GM wear color (or whatever) but GM should wear something different from the groom. ..

father of the bride (depends on formality of wedding) if walking down the aisle in formal can wear tux, in informal suit or tux is fine. .

in the end - I think as long as you like the look, it doesn't matter - i have seen some CRAZY outfits by groom and GM (all sorts of colors, styles etc)
Sweeteey51 Posted:

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I personally wouldnt give the groom the color tie just the GM.

The father can wear a reg tux or one that matches your GM if he wants.
HotAir Posted:

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Thanks! So, do people normally put their fathers in the same color vests/ties as the GM?
HotAir Posted:

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bump for update (added pics!).

Watever143 Posted:

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I love the tie....Have the gm wear a black vest.... Groom put in white or plat.

Father wear balck or sometime plat.
JoAnnJuneBride Posted:

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MY FH is wearing a completely diffrent assemble and color however it isn't white, black or ivory. I do think he should look diff form the rest of the groomsman though.

BTW the ties are great. I love your colors!!
coldasice217 Posted:

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I love that tie! I agree though, I think that it should be for the GM, and your FH should be in either the white/ivory/basic black.

HotAir Posted:

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Yeah, that's what I figured....my FH will be in ivory or white or whatever. I bought enough ties for my 2 best men, a GM and one for my ring bearer. I'm going to see if my godmother could work with it and make it smaller for him.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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LOVE THE TIE!! the colors are GREAT TOGETHER!

FH is wearing a white tie and white vest, grooms men are wearing white tie and black vest and the parents are wearing black ties
gina409 Posted:

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i have no idea what the guys r doing yet...i just wanted to say i love those ties!!!!!

GT143EA Posted:

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I love that tie!
My Fh is wearing white tie and vest, GM are wearing silver, dads are wearing black. HTH!

ETA: my BM's are wearing eggplant dresses
Soon2BMrsC09 Posted:

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what we are doing is our bridesmaids are in chocolate brown with a champagne colored sash, MOH is champagne colored with chocolate brown sash .. that gives you the backstory to understand this mess thats going on :)

FH in ivory shirt, vest, and tie

Best Man - Champagne vest with ivory shirt and chocolate brown tie

Groomsmen - Chocolate brown vest, ivory shirt, champagne tie

Dad's - ivory shirt, black vest, black ties
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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We are doing a charcoal color vest and tie for GM, white for FH, and black tie and vest for my dad

FinallyMrsB18 Posted:

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My DH wore ivory vest and tie. Looked so good.
BM wore vest and tie in mocha/silver color to match MOH.
Ring boys wore blue vests & ties to match the theme colors.
FIL wore gold (don't ask MIL was in blue gray, he wanted red so we called it a day and let him wear the gold)
My dad wore a copper vest & tie to match my mom.


Pics in album if you want to see it on.

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