Tuxes - Groom and groomsman

Are you having your finance and his groomsman wear the same exact tux, or is the hubby to be's going to be different.

I dont know what i am doing yet, I fell in love with this Ralph Lauren one, way back when before any dresses were picked out and its grey and has a pliad vest and regular tie.
but now the girls are wearing brown and black plaid, so grey would not go with them, so I am thinking of seeing if they have same exact tux in Black.

could I have hubby to be wear the grey or would that just be awful!!

who knows we didnt even look at tuxes in the store yet are going this week, just wanted to see what you ladies think?
and what everybody was doing,
Thanks

Not sure yet. I think he wants to be a little different. I told him I'd leave this up to him.

I don't like gray for a groom. JMO.

My FI tux will be different than the groomsmen. He aslo wanted grey, but I don't think it will go well with the other colors of the wedding. I am wearing ivory and it just doesn't look right. My gilrs are wearing periwinkle and again, it just look as nice as a black tux will in the pictures. JMO

Fi is wearing a 3 button tux with a white shirt and a long black tie.

The men are wearing 3 button tux with a graphite vest & long tie.