Is it wierd to have 2 MOH's? Has anyone done this? I really want my sister and my best friend, but I'm not sure what to do. Please help!
Is your sister or best friend married? Then you can have a matron and maid of honor.
Neither of them are married. Do you think it's wierd to have 2 MOH's?
My cousins are three sisters...two have gotten married and have had both sisters as MOH...It was great...they split the activiteis up...One held the bouquet, one held the ring...etc
my two sisters. (neither are married). Only one can be on the alter with me so my older sister will be there and my younger sister will do a reading. They'll both walk down the aisle with the best man (after the ceremony.) They're walking into the church solo.
I don't think it is weird at all...who made a rule that you have to pick on person??? My friend did it this summer...she did not want to choose between sisters. She was able to have both of them sit on the alter with her too. I think it was nice. Go with your heart
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I am having a Maid and Matron...even if both were married/single, I would have had both anyway. I agree you should follow your heart. I think it will be very special. And actually, my friend is doing the same thing, and both are unmarried! Good luck and don't worry - it will be wonderful...
Hi I am having 2 matron of Honors. My sister and best freind who are both married. My Fiance is having his 2 best freinds as best man. I am not sure who is going to sign as witneses yet but I think we will distribute everything evenly. It should be fun....It is not weird at all
My best friend got married last year and she had her two best friends as her MOH's. It was myself and our other friend. Just b/c something is written the way it is doesn't mean that you have to abide by that rule. Afterall it's your wedding/your day so you get to do what you want. Enjoy and best of luck to all of you!
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Can I ask what happens if there are 6 BM adn 6 GM and the two MOH's walk with the best man...what happens with the extra Groomsman leftover after the ceremony? Also, were things cool with the two MOH's as far as no jealousy, competetion,etc?
you can double up the lone GM with another couple. So 1 BM walks with two guys.
It worked out that we have 4 BM's and 4 GM's, 1 Best Man and 2 MOH's. But when I thought there were going to be 5 GM, I was going to double up like I mention above.
It was fun. There was no way I was going to choose between them - I'd have to live with that for the rest of my natural life (and then some!). One signed the marriage license and the other stood closest to me and held my bouquet.
There wasn't any jealousy between them, although, the younger one still refers to herself as our '#1 MOH' - guess it makes her feel better!
Best of luck!
Thanks for all of your responses. You helped make a really tough decision a lot easier!
We are having a maid of honor, matron of honor and 2 best men. It is your wedding, make it meaningful to YOU. Good Luck!
