ugggghhhhhhh my sisters shower is going to SUCKKKK

ugh im so mad. i hate planning things with other people.

her SIL wants to send facebook messages to invite people to my sisters baby shower.

already, we are having it at a gay bar, my sisters MIL owns one.

its just going to be so cheesy. its like thrown together, shes like we need 2 bottles of coke, 1 bottle of sprite and 2 bottles of white and 2 of red...its a freaking BABY SHOWER, my sister can't even drink. lets focus on some delicious sherbert punch or something.

omg im so mad. i wish i could just take over, but she clearly has it all planned, and i dont know how to offer my opinions without telling her that her ideas are cheesy and cheap.

tellher...

Im going to bring some decorations and stuff its the least I can do since we're using your place

AND THEN freaking bring everything u can there to make it rock! Tulle the sh*t out of the place!

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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i know!

update: i just emailed everyone and said 'omg, i just had a vision...pink tulle!!!!! its cheap if you get it when its on sale at joannes, they have it in pink and we could tulle the crap out of the bunk! then advertise for that night to be a pink party at the bunk!!!!'

(the bunk is the gay bar)

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Posted by MoochsWifey

Since it's your sister I would step in and say that you appreciate all the help but it's really important to you that you make this a special day for her. Say something like she's done so much for me I just really want to do this as something special for her from me.

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ITA!!!!!!!!

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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hahaha... im not gonna lie... there was a long pause there for me too...

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Posted by PoppedInASnap



AND THEN freaking bring everything u can there to make it rock! Tulle the sh*t out of the place!

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ha ha

How many people is she planning on coming that she is getting 1 and 2 bottles of soda???

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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Your totally right...id def talk to her.

And there is NOTHING better to have at a baby shower than awesome sorbet punch

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Posted by ddnsp618

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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i know!

update: i just emailed everyone and said 'omg, i just had a vision...pink tulle!!!!! its cheap if you get it when its on sale at joannes, they have it in pink and we could tulle the crap out of the bunk! then advertise for that night to be a pink party at the bunk!!!!'

(the bunk is the gay bar)

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What kinda gay bar doesnt have sodie?

Awww hang in there Danielle! I love the pink tulle idea!

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Posted by ddnsp618

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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i know!

update: i just emailed everyone and said 'omg, i just had a vision...pink tulle!!!!! its cheap if you get it when its on sale at joannes, they have it in pink and we could tulle the crap out of the bunk! then advertise for that night to be a pink party at the bunk!!!!'

(the bunk is the gay bar)

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OMG is this place out east?? There was a gay bar out easy right by my friend and it was the butt of a lot of jokes...

...as to your OP....I would just show up with a whooooole bunch of stuff. A bowl and materials for sherbert punch, decorations, decor items....and if they question it just say you were trying to help and its out of love for your sister...

...and in the future make sure you plan the shower from the start coz these bishes is crazy!!!

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Posted by ddnsp618

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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i know!

update: i just emailed everyone and said 'omg, i just had a vision...pink tulle!!!!! its cheap if you get it when its on sale at joannes, they have it in pink and we could tulle the crap out of the bunk! then advertise for that night to be a pink party at the bunk!!!!'

(the bunk is the gay bar)

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Where is that? I think I live by it!

Tell her its your sister and you appreciate some help but you really want to do this yourself and to back the f off.

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

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Posted by ddnsp618

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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i know!

update: i just emailed everyone and said 'omg, i just had a vision...pink tulle!!!!! its cheap if you get it when its on sale at joannes, they have it in pink and we could tulle the crap out of the bunk! then advertise for that night to be a pink party at the bunk!!!!'

(the bunk is the gay bar)

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What kinda gay bar doesnt have sodie?

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Great point! If this is at a bar why would she be concerned about those standard beverages that are a given at ANY bar?!

Step in.. just because they're in laws doesn't mean you can't say something.

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I'm sorry...you lost me at 'we're having it at a gay bar'

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Tell her your bringing the punch yourself because a mommy to be can't have soda or booze. Or better yet, just show up with it. What are they going to do, throw it out?

I think you should stand up to them though, after all she is your sister, your blood relative.

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Posted by MLAngelo

Tell her your bringing the punch yourself because a mommy to be can't have soda or booze. Or better yet, just show up with it. What are they going to do, throw it out?

I think you should stand up to them though, after all she is your sister, your blood relative.

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ITA