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Ser29 Posted:

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After booking my limo FH and I made plans for the entire bridal party, most of who are his siblings and nieces and nephes and out of towners to stay out our apartment and my moms house the night before so that it is easier because our wedding is so early. We would have the guys at the apartment with FH and the girls with me and mom and moms house. Well my mom is telling me this isn't going to happen because the house- its a coop - is too small and that everyone should be getting there ready and dressed already. I was like but I am providing the hair and makeup so they have to do that part there anyway and the apartment is smaller then the house so I don't get it. I'm soooo upset becuase everything that I do for this wedding my mother is having a hissy fit over and she's killing me because she keeps telling me the hell with it the wedding is off. We have less then 11 months and I'm so stressed because it seems like nothing that I want I can get becuase of my mother.. though some of it we have just done becuase she has dealt with it but some like using her house I can't do if she won't let me. Is anyone else having mother problems, any advice would be great. Anyone else having their girls come by them to get ready together or at least partially together. Why do things have to be so difficult. I need help!

HenryAlba07 Posted:

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My girls will be coming to me. IMO, it will be way too crazy to have that many people staying with your mom. It's the day before your wedding, things will be crazy .....and emotional.

I am sure everyone can find their way to your place. I have been in other parties before and we just met up at the brides house.

Don't stress over this.
Ser29 Posted:

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the problem is that its his sisters entire family that is in the wedding party .. 5 people so they have to pay for dress, getting here from upstate, hotel, bridal shower, plus much more .. and its not like its a million people its me , mom, his sister, niece, and maybe his mother in law.. thats not that bad.. my 2 maid of honors live here so they can just come over they are five min away

Ser29 Posted:

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plus i am gettign their hair and makeup done by me so i need them there for that

RobbsWifey Posted:

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awwwwwwwww I'm so sorry to hear you're so upset sweetie! My mother can be a big pain in the butt too sometimes. If she will continue to be nothing but stressful and unsupportive to you, then you need to tell her that her opinions and 'help' is no longer wanted because she is doing nothing but upsetting you. Hopefully that will put her in her place and get her to realize that this is and will never be about her. I'm getting ready at the Inn at Fox Hollow and am having my bridal party with me. Any out of town guests will have the option to get a room at the hotel with me, but I'm not going to kill myself to appease everyone, because no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to make everyone happy. So in the mean time, only concern yourself with making YOU happy, because in the end, that is the most important thing. I hope any bit of this has helped you and feel free to FM me if you want to vent anymore about anything...I am so here to help!!! Good luck!

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