uggh what is wrong with me..

i see all thse beautiful girls in beautiful dresses and i know ium never finding one..i pick out ones i like on the comp then when i go try on i hate they way i look in them...im a total tomboy and u have a better chance of seeing jesus than me in a dress so i know thats part of it but when will i snap out of this and find a dress!!!!!! sorry needed to vent

Don't feel bad...you'll find something perfect for you!

Sometimes it's a little depressing for me too looking at the dress threads...but you just have to put your blinders on and not compare everyone else to you. If you're a tomboy and hate dresses, try looking for slimmer silhouettes...they're not as poofy and you'll probably feel a lot more comfortable in something like that. I have a tomboy-ish body and eff-it attitude about dresses, so trust me!

You'll find 'the one'! You found the real 'One' and finding that one is much harder to find than a dress! Just be patient and don't get discouraged. Pick your favorite dress and try to find something with that 'flavor'. That's what I did and I found the perfect dress for me. And remember most dresses can be slightly changed to become what you want it to be too so try them on and focus on what doesn't work and ask if it can be changed.

Good luck!

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

Its ok.... You will find a dress! What style do you like... maybe we can help?

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its so funny my sisters,friends even the people at the bridasl store ask and the truth is i have no idea..i would love strapless but feel like i look like a linebacker..all i do know is all my life ive been in sneakers with no makeup and a ponytail and i want to look like a girl for once

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Posted by gina409

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

Its ok.... You will find a dress! What style do you like... maybe we can help?

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its so funny my sisters,friends even the people at the bridasl store ask and the truth is i have no idea..i would love strapless but feel like i look like a linebacker..all i do know is all my life ive been in sneakers with no makeup and a ponytail and i want to look like a girl for once

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Hmmmm... do you know what fabric you like?
Lace, taffeta, satin? Any beading or just plain?

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

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Posted by gina409

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

Its ok.... You will find a dress! What style do you like... maybe we can help?

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its so funny my sisters,friends even the people at the bridasl store ask and the truth is i have no idea..i would love strapless but feel like i look like a linebacker..all i do know is all my life ive been in sneakers with no makeup and a ponytail and i want to look like a girl for once

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Hmmmm... do you know what fabric you like?
Lace, taffeta, satin? Any beading or just plain?

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Any celeb wedding that you really liked the style of?

lol the grooms tux just kidding...i have some picked out at rk bridal that im going to try on ad we will see what happens im a lost cause..i do like lace though i think its pretty and i def need something on it either a design or a flower or something just cant be white from top to bottom does that make sense? as for fabric i have no idea what is what

Would you like a style like this?



It's simple, but it also has a nice detailing on it so it's not boring. I actually tried it on, and it was very comfortable. They also have it with a rum pink detailing, or just the plain white or ivory if you aren't into colors.

This could work too, because it's lace, and a sweetheart neckline makes your shoulders not seem as broad because it brings the eye down, another thing I also had to be concerned with...

I thought i found my dream dress in magazines, but when i tried the on, they were nothing i wanted!!!! i tried on everything in the first store basically and found i wanted something different go try on anything!!! this is ur time to smile, and be happy!!!!!!! find ur perfect dress, its def out there.

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

heres an idea.... do not show the consultants any of what you think you want... let them decide for you what would be best for your shape... seriously... i didnt pick mine out.... the consultant did... all the ones i thought i liked, i hated on myself...

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oohh i like that idea..thanks girls

By Jasmine

ohhhhhhhhh me like!!!!! wow u girls r good adding to notebook as we speak

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Posted by gina409

ohhhhhhhhh me like!!!!! wow u girls r good adding to notebook as we speak

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YAY!!

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Posted by gina409

i see all thse beautiful girls in beautiful dresses and i know ium never finding one..i pick out ones i like on the comp then when i go try on i hate they way i look in them...im a total tomboy and u have a better chance of seeing jesus than me in a dress so i know thats part of it but when will i snap out of this and find a dress!!!!!! sorry needed to vent

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Hello my Date Twin!!!! Don't worry.....You should try on ALL dresses, even the ones you think you would never wear...
I found one online that I thought I loved, and went with a totally different style.....

Don't worry you'll find the one!!!

You will find your dress. Stay true to you though!!
I made the mistake of 'wanting' to be a ballgown girl, ordered it, and then had major remorse and had to do a re select. You have PLENTY of time to find the right dress. Keep us posted!