At this point, I am so over the bachlorette party drama it's not even funny, but I really wish the girls coordinating it had more class and did NOT yell and b!tch out my friends that give them last minute No's.
I will address it in my own way. How can I advise my friends to take it easy and be cordial without sounding like I am being ungrateful for there work?
brittndave
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i would call them and tell them that someone called you really upset saying that they were already upset that they couldn't come but it made it worse that the girls coordinating it were mean about it. then tell them that you know that they want to make it perfect, but it doesn't matter to you who doesn't come because you know that they will be there with you to celebrate and anyone else is just missing out on an awesome time.
jhines4684
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Posted by brittndave
i would call them and tell them that someone called you really upset saying that they were already upset that they couldn't come but it made it worse that the girls coordinating it were mean about it. then tell them that you know that they want to make it perfect, but it doesn't matter to you who doesn't come because you know that they will be there with you to celebrate and anyone else is just missing out on an awesome time.
The sad thing is, the girl didn't bail to be a jerk, there's a really bad issue that just occurred, and she even told me to keep the money she paid already.
So I don't see why my coordinators are being mean about. Sure, it's a lot of money, but I am sure we can find someone to fill the spot, maybe someone can go now that couldn't afford it because it was partially covered?
