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meghan13 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:36 AM

ugh! added vent please don't quote

Thanks ladies..

HSsweethearts Posted: May 03, 2011 11:36 AM

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So vent quick and take it down!

In the meantime

BlushandBashful Posted: May 03, 2011 11:37 AM

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Posted by HSsweethearts

So vent quick and take it down!

In the meantime

ITA!!

rosatemp Posted: May 03, 2011 11:43 AM

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Posted by HSsweethearts

So vent quick and take it down!

In the meantime

ITA as well

Jennielee15 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:45 AM

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So sorry! People suck!

BlushandBashful Posted: May 03, 2011 11:46 AM

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Ugh. How selfish. I don't blame you for being upset. Are these people local? Are you even able to go to both?

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted: May 03, 2011 11:47 AM

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wow that's wrong... i would say something to them, but that's just me. i'm very confrontational...

MrsTarricone2B Posted: May 03, 2011 11:47 AM

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Wow that's so messed up. I probably wouldn't go afterward since they knew the date before they picked their date. If it was an honest mistake I would go but between what they did at the e-party and now this I feel like there's some kind of reason they are pulling this.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this

Cataverri Posted: May 03, 2011 11:50 AM

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That really stinks honestly, and to answer your questions I would not show up at all. Ohhh and please make sure you guiys dont give them anything as a present.

meghan13 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:50 AM

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Posted by BlushandBashful

Ugh. How selfish. I don't blame you for being upset. Are these people local? Are you even able to go to both?

The eparty is in FH's backyard. I dont know where the shower is but I doubt it will be too far

HSsweethearts Posted: May 03, 2011 11:51 AM

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My FSIL planned her baby shower for the same day as my shower. Her solution was to not invite her mom's friends' and her aunt to her shower and then to make her mom throw her ANOTHER shower the day before so they could attend, so the bish got 2 showers.

I would probably just be the bigger person and pretend you don't know and go to both.

meghan13 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:51 AM

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Posted by Soon2BMrsJoeBear

wow that's wrong... i would say something to them, but that's just me. i'm very confrontational...

I want to but I'm not supposed to know when the shower is & my mom would be so upset if she knew I knew.

lisam1113 Posted: May 03, 2011 11:59 AM

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I would judge it on how you feel after your shower. You might be tired, want to go home & enjoy some of your gifts. Or maybe even show up at their party & be the better person! It's not your fault at all that they did that, don't upset yourself over it

Ray8183 Posted: May 03, 2011 12:01 PM

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Go and talk about your shower. Show up late and say, I made it. That way you didn't hurt your mom.

HSsweethearts Posted: May 03, 2011 12:02 PM

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Posted by meghan13

Posted by Soon2BMrsJoeBear

wow that's wrong... i would say something to them, but that's just me. i'm very confrontational...

I want to but I'm not supposed to know when the shower is & my mom would be so upset if she knew I knew.

For this reason I would just play dumb and go. I think if you don't go, or do anything really it probably won't hurt FBIL at all since he seems really self-involved, but it may hurt other members of the family who didn't do anything to hurt you.

bebita0830 Posted: May 03, 2011 12:05 PM

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wow that's terrible! and he's in the bridal party?!?

jilliebean84 Posted: May 03, 2011 12:24 PM

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Any chance their party is the fake party to get you to your shower?

ColliMac23 Posted: May 03, 2011 12:36 PM

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My first instinct is 'I wouldn't go' however you always want to be classy and keep your side of the street clean so I would go

SME418 Posted: May 03, 2011 12:41 PM

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Posted by jilliebean84

Any chance their party is the fake party to get you to your shower?

I was going to say the same thing. Or maybe it really isn't your shower date and they wanted you to think it was so there won't actually be two events the same day.