ugh sooo tired

Lately things have been a bit loopy i see that a lot of girls on LIW have been having lil tiffs with their FH. Well, I guess its my turn.... since last Thurs my FH has been staying at my house well my parents apt that is quite quaint for 2 but a squeze for 4 and now uncomfortable for 5 ! We try to make due with what we have but he has been on my last nerve with the are you okie whats wrong? i know he cares but seriously ugh on my last nerve can Friday come any quicker? I just need my space to breathe last night i slept on my parent coach so I would have some room to space out watch tv alone etc... and he was offended i feel bad i explained it to him but he was still offended.... i don't know what else to do

just read your post from last night.

that's a tough one. it sounds like he's just trying to be nice, and so i'm sure you feel guilty yelling at him...BUT i totally know where you are coming from, sometimes you just NEED some friggiin SPACE!!! especially if he's staying with you for now in a small space.

why not tell him you are having a night out w your friends, and tell him to make plans for a night out w his friends. then when he leaves to go out w his boys, you just stay home and relax for the night!! seriously, it's a little white lie so that you don't hurt his feelings, and you get the night to yourself. you can tell him later that your plans fell through and you just decided to stay in.

i'm not saying lying is the answer but i totally know how it goes when they are just trying to be helpful and sweet but it's getting on your last nerve!! lol...

good luck!! hope you get some sleep!

that's rough...i hate it when they don't know how to give us space...FH is like that too. can you find a quiet corner to just read a book or something and tell him he's not allowed to come near you for an hour or so? Maybe you can put a hula hoop on the ground around you and tell him he can't cross it or the time extends for 5 more minutes hahah...sorry. i may steal that idea...did you ever get to take that walk?

I can understand that FH gets on your nerves, so does mine and we have a 2 bedroom apt. Sometimes he sleeps in the other room when we are angry at each other. I'm not saying this to be mean, but you will have to get used to spending lots of time together without a break if you plan on spending the rest of your life together.

But we do both look forward to days when one of us has to work late, as a night alone from time to time is great.